All Of Our Days Can Be The Good Old Days...
Once again I sit here in the early morning and think of what
Cold days can be expected in the month of December!
I love that it gets dark early so we must come in and relax and
Enjoy those long winter nights!
Our generation is a GO generation...
Always busy, always looking at their phone.
Do you ever just stop and ask yourself this question
"Why do you do what you do?"
I do not mind being busy for a season!
I just wanted to encourage each of you today with a few thoughts!
This first one may sound harsh, but I believe it merits at least
To be mentioned!
If you have a friendship that is completely one sided
(You do all the calling, You put all the effort into it)
Emotional, and supporting of them, and there is
Then may I suggest letting it start to fade;
Ask God is this one you should continue to invest in?
(Because there are some people we all have in our lives that it is going to be this way)
But there are some relationships that just need to go by the wayside.
~You should be investing in your Husband and Family~
But God Knows we all need a good friend!
Being wise and spending your time in investing in healthy relationships!
And we can be kind to all, but realistically we only have so much energy
But when God gives you and a kindred spirit friend; love her and honor her!
The reason we need to evaluate friendships;
Because a true friend is a treasure!
Impart into those friendships that will produce fruit!
Take some time and send a card or call those that are near and dear
To Your Heart...
Be open to new ones God may bring to you!!
Be willing to let go of the ones that are fading!!
God will always remove those that are not good for you;
(But you must ask Him to do that for you)
Allow God to manage who He wants in your life!
Try to make a few hours each month to fellowship with a friend!
A few good friends is better than being friends with everyone...
Writing a letter will always be worth your time;
(I have saved every written note sent to me in my adult life)
Remember, having an older woman in your life is very biblical!
Okay, bake a chocolate cake and serve your husband and family,
But save a piece for a dear friend and enjoy each others company.
Because a good friend is like chocolate
It is meant to be shared and enjoyed!