The History Of the Twelve Days Of Christmas...

The History of 'The Twelve Days of Christmas'

On the first day of Christmas, my true love gave to me...

 Jesus Christ on the Cross!

From 1558 until 1829, Roman Catholics in England were not permitted to practice their faith openly. Someone during that era wrote this carol as a catechism song for young Catholics. It has two levels of meaning: the surface meaning plus a hidden meaning known only to members of their church. Each element in the carol has a code word for a religious reality which the children could remember.

The partridge in a pear tree was Jesus Christ.

Two turtle doves were the Old and New Testaments.

Three French hens stood for faith, hope and love.

The four calling birds were the four gospels of Matthew, Mark, Luke & John.

The five golden rings recalled the Torah or Law, the first five books of the Old Testament.

The six geese a-laying stood for the six days of creation.

Seven swans a-swimming represented the sevenfold gifts of the Holy Spirit--Prophesy, Serving, Teaching, Exhortation, Contribution, Leadership, and Mercy.

The eight maids a-milking were the eight beatitudes.

Nine ladies dancing were the nine fruits of the Holy Spirit--Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness, and Self-control.

The ten lords a-leaping were the ten commandments.

The eleven pipers piping stood for the eleven faithful disciples.

The twelve drummers drumming symbolized the twelve points of belief in the Apostles' Creed.

As a young Christian I have always wondered about how long it took the wise
Men to come to the place, where Baby Jesus was!


The 12 days of Christmas is the period that in Christian theology marks the span between the birth of Christ and the coming of the Magi, the three wise men. It begins on December 25 (Christmas) and runs through January 6 (the Epiphany, sometimes also called Three Kings' Day). The four weeks preceding Christmas are collectively known as Advent, which begins four Sundays before Christmas and ends on December 24.

It can all be a bit overwhelming; But I think sometimes it

Can help us realize there is more to the story!

I also learned some of these facts from wikipedia.com,

I remember as a child many of the families in our neighborhood,

Always left their Christmas tree and decorations up well into

January...

Most of my friends were from the Catholic or Lutheran Dedominations.

I just heard my grandson say its so weird that right after Christmas,

It all just ends!

Well, I guess we find that after we have had our Christmas stuff up 

Since right after Thanksgiving, we get tired of having it up!

Personally, I always feel a bit sad that it all ends so quickly!

I may just leave it all up for a while longer this year!!

This is all really quite interesting, But we can take it or leave it!

Just A Thought...

Can We Re-Gift A Gift We Have Received...

Is It Okay To Re-Gift?

I remember the first time I found myself giving a gift;
That I had received from someone that was not what I needed!
I must of had two of them.
That was when I had to decide whether it was a proper thing to do!

I did end up giving it as this other person would enjoy it,
And get some use out of it!
Where I would not be doing that at all.

You must always be aware of who gave it and never,
Give something away that would hurt the person's feelings,
If they ever found out!
And always keep those things that a child or an old friend shared a treasure from their hearts!

And in some circumstances you can even say;
Hey, I was given two of these ______
And I thought you might enjoy having this one!


But if you are given three sets of something, or double;
Then I believe there are times we can re-gift...

There have been times I have given gifts
 I have gotten from an antique store.
And even Goodwill, I may have had to repaint or fix!

I even buy simple things that are on sale and save to give later!

So have I re-gifted?
Yes...

But trust me it was a blessing to another and I enjoyed sharing!

Just use wisdom and never do it if it could damage,
A relationship or friendship!


And beware that one day you may find yourself on the receiving
End of the re-gifting line.
And so if you find yourself with hurt feelings.
This will help you decide re-gifting is not acceptable to you!

We all have so much in a world of stuff...
I think that is why so many are even asking others to not bring a gift;
But rather donate to a worthy cause...

Also a homemade gift is always so sweet and a treat to eat!

Blessings From Glory To Glory
Hugs, Roxy

Do You Have A Happy Home...

Home...

Sometimes we can become so overwhelmed with life...

That is why it is so important to make a place where we can rest and keep;

Ourselves and our loved ones safe and happy!

Have you ever experienced this;

When out driving in the evenings after it has gotten dark, and as you drive past,

Many homes, I can almost feel which homes are Happy Homes...

They have a special look or a warmth that just permeates the darkness!

Everything takes work, but some types of work just bring a

Greater JOY...

I know some people do not celebrate Christmas, but I do!

There are some things we can do with our family's  that just keeps

Their hearts at HOME

We always try to gather here in Grandmas Home to eat,

And enjoy a Sunday dinner!

We always try to have the Christmas Eve dinner here also!

I love all the twinkle lights all year round;

I always keep a strand that is at the bottom of our mantel.

I believe there is magic in a woman's heart that desires to do

All the little and big things that make their homes special!

And cozy and warm and comfortable and filled with a gentle, quiet in your heart!

I believe winter is the time of year we can rest and recover!

It gets dark out so early and we can enjoy the quiet of the evenings.

In the years long ago, it was good to get a good night's rest!

I can't control the world, but I can at least monitor my home!

When we learn to enjoy the little things and desire;

To live in a way that allows time to enjoy your food!

Enjoy the moments to read the Word.

Calling a friend or mailing a letter to encourage!

Move slower and enjoy the aroma of the love of HOME...

I love having the Hope and Joy and Peace that comes from being content!
Beware of watching all the commercials that tell us how bad we need it!

I must say I so enjoy those Hallmark commercials;
Someone always starts tearing up.

May I encourage you all to stop and enjoy the little things in life!
Learn to stay away from things and people that want to push your buttons;
As we must stay in peace, I use to say this'
Do you want to keep the peace or do you want to be right?

Please remember the reason for the season!

Blessings Dear Friends
Roxy

A Woman's Place Is In...

~A Woman's Place Is In~

Being in the right place at the right time...

Being in a quiet place with sweet fellowship with her Savior

"Jesus Christ"

Being a woman that desires to invest in her family.

Being loyal and showing respect to her husband.

Being happy and taking care of yourself.

Being fruitful in her spiritual growth

(Become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ)

Ephesians 4:13

Being aware of the needs that the Lord shows you.

Being able to turn small talk toward something deeper.

(God Talk)

Being able to protect those that she loves.

Being willing to learn and to be flexible.

Being kind is a character trait we need to aspire to!

Being able to STOP and assess a situation!

Being able to value what the Lord values.

Being able to rest and enjoy Gods Blessings...

The woman is an incredible gift to our families and homes;

We have so much to give and share...

We nurture and help others to grow and appreciate Life...

Learning And Loving each and every day...

Love. Roxy

Why We Must Take The Right Path In the Right Boots...

I love a good pair of boots!

As the old saying goes until you have walked in their shoes;

Or may I rephrase in their boots.

We never really know the road some must travel on.

But when we see so much walking in the wrong direction;

Or walking upon a slippery slope, we only can hope they

Can perceive the Danger Zone just ahead!

Or maybe so many are just zoned out and not tuned in!

But I write this Blog to encourage those that have hearts that love Home...

We all know that in order to live the life that brings contentment;

Is going to take some work and endurance...

Everything does not have to be a chore, but more of this feels good!

Look at what you have done to keep things running smoothly!

One thing you can count on is an uphill battle.

But when we are prepared for the long haul in life.

You will be able to keep on trucking...

When you think about all the different kinds of material and styles for our feet!

I always can see the spiritual side of most everything.

Ballerina slippers are made for a specific job;

Pretty and light with a tough toe...

So they can twirl and go about as a ballerina.

Now, Combat boots are for rough terrain!

Stones, mud, cold, heat, but they are resilient.

Take a pair of slippers, comfy and cozy,

But no real support!

High heels look fashionable, but you could break your neck!

Sneakers can be used for sports, walking and everyday wear!

But boots, are required spiritually to get the next thing done!

Where you set your spiritual feet upon what path;

Will matter and can change the course of your life

Eternal and the now!

I always loved the saying;

~You Can't Keep A Good Woman Down~

Blessings, Roxy

How To Set Boundaries, And Why We Need Them...

Boundaries...

Why are so many people powerless to set boundaries?

Most the time is because we do not want to hurt another person's feelings;

Knowing your own personal boundaries will keep you healthy!

Knowing what is my stuff gives me freedom!

There are things and people that will try to diminish you!

Learning to be able to tell others what "YOUR  BOUNDARIES ARE"

This is key...

Have you ever heard someone say, well they never told me that!

People cannot read your mind!

You also can not assume!

We must learn are own comfort and safe zones.

Being able to say I am not comfortable with this;

Behavior

Rudeness

Manipulation

Knowing your boundaries helps you,

And in the long run, it helps others!

We are not responsible for other adults boundaries.

But if you do not take care of your own perimeters

You will open the gate to wolves!

No one can do certain things for us!

People will try to lay all their burdens upon you!

We are all called to carry our own burdens!

So many are just plain irresponsible, and then we are back in a corner,

Only if you will say enough and NO to certain things!

Look, it's your home and your life;

Believe that you have a right and an obligation to keep certain things out!

The reason a good fence has a gate you can open is so you can let the

GOOD IN

And keep the

BAD OUT

If you don't, you might as well put a revolving door on the front of your home.

God limits what He will allow in His Yard!

He guards His house and will not allow evil to live there.

I learned many years ago to set boundaries!

We do not have to be a door mat for everything that comes along.

Our Words will have to be our defense for setting boundaries!

NO...

That behavior is not acceptable

Drinking

Smoking (cigarettes, pot)

Foul language

Uncomfortable Touch

We can say these things with a voice of ownership!

Mean what you say

Passivity will never set boundaries, but will keep you stuck and  you will become resentful!

I had a problem years ago with someone who always brought their dog

Huge dog and he always would pee on my floors!

I finally told them nicely that it was not going to work for me any more.

Guess what, they never came back;

They were mad at me forever!

Yes, it was sad, but that was the beginning of finding my voice and knowing

My limits and my boundaries...

Being honest or truthful will hurt someone!

But the truth will set you free.

Preserving our own soul from wolves that desire to kill us!

Being aggressive for the right to keep our homes safe and our hearts healthy!

Stress and saying yes to everything makes one weak and vulnerable!

Take heart, we are more than overcomers!

I am thankful that in this season of my life I have very few people who

Try to manipulate or diminish me.

I have really felt the stress of over the years during the holiday season;
But I think we can very nicely say and speak what is on our minds.
And what is acceptable in our lives and homes

Our boundaries can show grace and discipline and bring
Peace to our hearts and Glory to God!

So Please Learn about how to set boundaries,
Teach others how to set them!
There is no reason to be manipulated by others!
We also can see this done through peer pressure;

We can accomplish setting boundaries, while still being kind and gracious!

As Always...
Living From Glory To glory

Hugs, Roxy

How Homemakers Can Bring Glory To God...

Mississippi-mud-Cake 

Did you know that if you enjoy being a homemaker it brings;

Glory to God?

When we are in our homes using the fruits of the Spirit;

In our attitudes and in our service towards others.

We bring glory to God...

He has established the Home,

It is where we grow and find comfort and love.

We also learn endurance and discipline!

It is where we can learn correction and direction!

Take each day as an opportunity to use the gifts;

We can make each day an offering to the Lord Jesus.

Any act of service done in Love!

Taking care of our Husband's needs!

The children's need for attention and training!

Making a meal and enjoying it is a powerful testimony!

Breaking bread and fellowshipping with those we love! 

The Benefits Of Cooking In Cast Iron Cooking Ware...

Galatians 5:22-23 (NKJV)

22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long-suffering,

 Kindness, goodness, faithfulness,

 23 gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law

We need to ask the Lord to show us how to love others!

We need to know our Joy comes from the Lord;

And learning to be content...

Peace is what our families need, not someone always worrying.

But rather experiencing the peace that comes from trusting the Lord!

(In Everything)

We all know a little bit or a lot about long-suffering;

(This world has much of this going on!)

Kindness is a powerful weapon to keep the enemy away'

It's so easy to be kind, do you want to help your family overcome?

Then teach them kindness;

Words

Actions

Attitudes

Goodness is something you can count on!

We love the statement He is a good man or a good woman!

Faithfulness; will you be able to be counted on?

Or are you fickle and not faithful in what tasks that need to be met daily!

Gentleness, will bring better results in everything

Or do you think being mean will bring a better result?

(It is like pouring gasoline on a fire)

Being self-controlled is a great gift to all those in your life!!!!

These are all accomplished by God's grace!

But we must exercise these very things in our own homes.

Then we can walk in them while in this world!

Through these we can and will bring Glory To God...

Living From Glory To Glory

The Benefits Of Cooking in Cast Iron Pans And Skillets...

Cast Iron Pans, and Skillets

Personally, I think cooking fried potatoes and hamburgers in cast iron

Is possible the best way ever!

Crunchy outside and moist and tender inside!

When we were little when someone seemed low in iron,

We would get a meal cooked completely in a cast iron skillet!

Yes, Using cast iron cooking pans and skillets will add

Significant amounts of iron into your food and to your body!

They are better then nonstick pans that have that coating on them!

They will last for your lifetime if taken care of!

You can use them on the stovetop and in the oven!

Super easy to clean,

" I do not use soap, but a sponge and hot water"

I always put a coating of oil on mine after each use!

They also just look so wonderful sitting up on your stove!

They say to me Home Cooking...

And a bit of Country Style!

The food just tastes better to me!

And remember, every time you use it to cook your foods

You are getting a dose of iron!

Once you cook something in it if you need to keep it warm;

Just pop it in the oven on low to keep the foods warm till supper time!

How To Season Your Pans and Skillets

You can season your cast iron cooking ware by washing them off.

Then rub them with a solid or melted vegetable oil.

Rub it on the inside and exterior.

Bake in the oven for one hour on 350 degrees.

I would place a piece of aluminum foil under the lower rack,

To catch any drippings!

 You can also season your pan by heat it up on the stove top until it's smoking hot,

 Then rub a little oil into it and let it cool.

I just use a little bit of paper towel to rub the oil onto the skillet

 Repeat this process a few times and you're good to go.

It is a good habit to clean it after each use...

You can use cast iron for frying, roasting, sauteing, and grilling.
There are so many shapes, skillets, Dutch oven style, a griddle for pancakes.

Cast iron cookware is very affordable and will last a lifetime!


If you see any rust forming, just scrub it off and reseason the pan!

Start your own heirloom set of cast iron cooking ware.

You can purchase one piece at a time or a whole set!
You can even find some of these pans at garage sales or while thrift shopping.
Keep your eyes peeled for them!

If you have never used cast iron for your cooking I hope you will
Give it a try and see if it's not really an asset to your cooking.

As always learning and growing and sharing!
Living From Glory To Glory Blog...

How To Train Yourself To Become Self Motivated...

How To Become Self Motivated?

I have heard so many people say, I can hardly get myself motivated!

I truly feel bad for these individuals'

Because generally speaking, we all could feel this way!

I asked a young lady the other day what she does all day long,

It just shocked me that her response was;

I just sit around all day, 

"She said some people think that is boring, but, I don't"

But her response was this is what she has been doing all along since she has gotten married!
She has been married for at least a year and has a newborn,

She told me she was bottle feeding so her husband can get up through the night to help feed,

"She said so she can sleep!"

 Now I don't have a problem with formula feeding,

And I think its great for any help the Father wants to help with!

So do not take this out of context,

I tried a comeback to her, do you like to read?

 She said I have some books, but I just look at them!

This not the Baby Blues!

I was told she does nothing;

She waits for her husband to get home, he works a lot of hours!

So then he has to make dinner and clean!

So is this just an isolated incident?

Are we all becoming unmotivated?

Or is it just a few lazy people...

How can you help yourself?

How can you help others?

I believe we are all suppose to carry our own load!

We are all responsible to work and make our lives and homes profitable;

With being clean and cozy and welcoming!

Some things to help you become trained in becoming Self Motivated

Making a list daily

"Write down what needs to be done"

Have a list of things that need to be done this month.

And things that need to be done daily!

Tell yourself that you must be productive!

Tell yourself you will not be lazy!

Be proud that you are setting your hand for a job that needs to be done!

Be intentional about your life habits!

Be focused!

Motivation for being a doer, is not any different than training for the Olympics!

"It takes every single day to work to stay ahead and to gain ground"

Learn how to do tasks in the most efficient way

Keep track of your progress

"I also like to write down what I have done that was not on my list!

Being a motivated person, requires a plan!

Even doing something small will start you flowing to complete a job!

I will ask myself this "Do you want to be like a sloth?"

My heart goes out to that young woman,

She will one day pay a high price for not wanting to work or to learn and grow!

We must never stop moving in the direction of accomplishing tasks!

If you will but ask for help, take advice, seek wisdom.

You will grow into a stronger motivated person!

Maybe we all need a life coach!

If you see someone that might except some help, give it!

If this young new Mom would allow me to help her I would;

But as we all know some people are not willing to allow someone to help!

That's another post for another situation...

But I will be calling her to ask if I might call her or text her to encourage her!

Blessings, Living From Glory To Glory

Why everything Takes Work And Diligence...

 

Apples Galore...

Are you willing to do the hard work of putting up your harvest?

Whether we plant apple trees or peach trees;

Whether we grow a garden filled with all kinds of different seeds.

We must consider the cost!

Everything takes work and diligence...

If we cannot be trusted to take care of what God blesses us with now!

How can you hope for an increase?

We were promised toil and snare after the first sin;

We no longer have the milk and honey land or life.

But we are still being held accountable to take care of our garden;

And this garden I am referring to is everything you have,

Been intrusted with!!

God will test each of us with how we manage His blessings!

We are but stewards of everything we have!

Even your education and all your relationships, Homes!

I guess I am not really a fun Blog, but I assume,

You come here to be encouraged, with a portion of lets get er done attitude.

When you enter a trial of hardship;

Or with every morning you awake,

Can you be counted on to roll up your sleeves and work?

If God gives you seed to plant you better plant them;

Cultivate them, watch over them!

And you must bring in the harvest!

We can take time to rest every night, and even a short nap.

But we must work while it is yet day!

We were created for fellowship with our heavenly Father;

But we have been entrusted to take care of His vineyard.

Everything will require attention;

That is why I think all our technology is a bit of a curse.

Everyone is distracted and not working with their hands!

Do what makes a home run for God's glory...

Work is a blessing...

Hope and Pray each of you become inspired and will set your hands,

To the task at Hand!

(Pun intended)

May we encourage one another to work as onto the Lord...

It's really not all about you...

Ask God for strength to do what is required of you!!

Love, Roxy

~Living From Glory To glory Blog~

How To Have A Better Home And Garden...

Laziness ...

If you don’t think laziness is a problem in America,

Consider the fact that we have a chair, the “Laz-e-boy,”

 Tailored for and marketed to the American home.

And it sells! 

Laziness, much like selfishness, is bent toward the self,

But it gets its marching orders from the comfort committee.

We desire the comfort and refuse to do anything difficult because it could be uncomfortable.

Laziness is chiefly about preserving and promoting the perception of personal comfort.

And laziness becomes a lie to yourself and others!

What has been something you have had a few nudges to accomplish?,

But still have not moved in that direction.

We should know when there is a problem in our marriages and our homes,

And we should also know that it requires a change, perhaps even a painful change.

So what happens? 

Laziness say's,

 “Oh, I’ll get to this another time.”

Or laziness says convincingly, “It’s not that bad. 

Waiting for later can result in a broken marriage!

Or

Your home turning into a broken down shack!

Laziness is a terrible crisis in our culture!

Years ago, there were so many that kept their homes clean!

Planted flowers and trees in their yards!

Painted and reused their furniture!

Made curtains from flour sacks for the windows.

They would even sweep their front porches.

We have so much more to use as resources,

But, So many homes are looking more unloved and not cared for!

If you do not think this is true, take a drive through your town.

Time and energy is a gift from the Lord!

Get busy and deep clean your homes!

Even if you start with one room at a time...

Get busy and give some attention to your marriage!

Marriage is always in need of attention

Making time for one another,

Laughing together,

Good food and making time to sup together!

Laziness can be so easily taken care of by just doing something every day!

Get busy and clean up your homes and yards!

Do not be like the slugger, or sloth!

Work and use your time wisely...

Your marriage and homes are worth all the effort you can put into them daily!

Working is what is required of each of us;

Carry your own load!

Trust me, I can get tired easily as I have aged, and as we have all experienced health issues,

Also, having young children at home, financial troubles.

But we must push through and get a handle on these things!

Learn to manage your time...

Look good. Smell good, work hard, pray hard

That is how we become more valuable than rubies.

As Always, Living From glory To Glory

Love, Roxy

How Important Is It To Be Content...

Be Content

We have all known people who all their lives are discontent.

They are never satisfied with where they are in life's seasons

Or what they have acquired in their lives.

Never enjoying the time that they are living in!

There is a tension of wanting adventure, but desiring the familiar!

But we can spend our whole life never feeling like we fit in;

Or never doing that one big thing!

A chance of a lifetime, but you secretly are glad!

I think at times that a few are called to wander and do the daring things.

But once again, I may watch it on television, but to climb huge rocks,

 Or dive off a cliff, or ski the swiss alps.

Well, my adventure is quite tame in comparison.

But being a daredevil is not my forte.

I prefer the quiet space and listening to nature in the quiet.

Being a homemaker has allowed me to enjoy the peaceful life..

I am not sure how much longer I can think of things to say too

Ladies that desire to be at home...

It can become lonely if you always need to be stimulated.

But if you enjoy a peaceful home and can take pleasure,

In having simple and nutritious meals, and a clean home.

And a few close friends that will be your friend for all your days.

Being a wife and a mother and knowing it is the highest calling!

You have learned to be content...

I ask the Lord often, Keep me in that secret place,

Give Your Angels charge over me!

If your tired and worn down, take a break.

Revive yourself with God's Word

Speak life to yourself!

Quote scripture...

As you age as a saint of God's chosen (His Elect)

It will get harder, not easier;

Because the Devil knows His time is short...

~Plod On Dear Ones~

Hugs, Roxy

A Fully Mature Peach In The Making...

~Peaches~

 They can be so delicious when they are picked fresh and when they are fully ripened.

Everything in Season

Sometimes when we try to eat something that is not fully matured;
As we might say "green"
We will  be very disappointing, as it will be hard and tasteless.

This is where patience has its perfect work...

When we do things out of season we will not be able to enjoy its full potential.
Fruit is only one example of being mature.

What does being mature look like?
What qualities might it have?

Now. Look, I am not talking about peaches here.

Being mature is something that develops over time!
Learning and desiring maturity seems like we are having a crisis,
Why, would you not want to be mature?

We all start out as children and not knowing much;
But over time if we will watch and wait and desire to learn.
We can become wise and mature in things.

We have too many know it all and very few teachers on one hand,
Then again we have way too many supposedly teachers, and no students.

"Don't tell me what to do"
Don't even suggest it!

Does that sound a little bit like rebellion?
Did I rebel as a child?
Yes, rebellion can be an outward act, or an inward attitude.

Look, if I am going to want to eat a peach, this is what I want.
A mature one that is juicy and delicious,
A peach that is grown mature, no longer green.
And so I may have to wait for a little longer!

As each day passes, we have the responsibility to mature.
Learning how to do things well, and consistently.

I wanted to learn how to play the piano, I needed a teacher.

I had a dear friend teach me the basics and now I am trying to learn on my own.
(Having a good teacher or student is hard to find)

Take the time to learn, be patient with those you are teaching.
Life is a give and take process...

Righteousness will have its perfect work...
But rebellion will leave you ignorant and not useful to anyone.

So if someone might call you a good peach;
That in my opinion is a compliment!

As Always,
Living From Glory To Glory
Roxy xoxo

Reflect And Grow Content...

Is anybody listening?

Can you hear me?

Random thoughts that were profound to me!

Everyone will go at their own speed.

Trust is something that must be earned.

Fear is an ugly emotion.

Your heart really can feel broken.

Priorities are something a wise person will implement.

Strength is from the Lord.

The cycle of being born and dying is hard to perceive.

A wise woman will stop and contemplate; but not for too long,

As she will become sad and melancholy...

We are told to plod on, I feel like a race horse at times and other times;

I have been put out to pasture.

Desire to make your life a haven; as it is the only place we have

The right to pursue happiness!

I choose to be kind, to enjoy the little things!

Look for the best in others!

Enjoy the home and family and friends that have been given to me!

Reflect and inspire yourself.

Never throw in the towel.

Give yourself room to grow and to heal.

Some people come into your life for a short time.

Look for what is beautiful.

Life will throw you a curve ball;

No worries God saw it coming.

What was that??

You will not understand everything that happens to you;

Or to those you love...

The pain will get your attention!

Concept; then there is the reality.

Another day, another chance!

Every day can be a gift if you will just unwrap it slowly and savor it!

Living from glory To glory

Love, Roxy

Don't Use That Tone Of Voice With Me...

I can remember my Mother saying to me;
You better change your tone little girl!

I probably had my hand on my hip giving my opinion!

Well, I would like to think I have come a long way baby.
But sadly at times I can still see that attitude in me;
Even if it's in a more subtle way.

I remember having my own little girl and at times she would open her mouth;
And some of the things that came out;
Truly most of them were the truth, just not done respectfully.
As we say out of the mouths of babes.
They can be so forthright...
Like wow, what a big nose you have
Phew, you stink
You're fat

As her mother, I was mortified and embarrassed!

But as an adult  in our marriage and even with our Heavenly Father,
We can have our hand on our hip and use that tone of voice;
And not realize how disrespectful we truly are being.
And that condescending tone is so not considered a gentle quiet voice.

I so wish all my words could be...

~A Sweet Smelling Aroma~

Did you ever get your mouth washed out with soap?
Well, I did!

And I am glad I did!!

I want my tone and words to be a fragrant scent!
This is not easy in a world that needs to have devices that take out all
The nasty words and all the swearing.

We can all have a fragrant scent if we will allow the Word of God;
To penetrate our hearts and cleanse our mouths!

 One thing that has helped me it this;

~Rejoice Always~

1 Thessalonians 5:16

When I am rejoicing, and not having my hand on my hip (smiles)
I can stop the tone of being proud and self-righteous.

Again, I say, Rejoice

When my Mother told me to change my tone; I did it real quick...

May we get a lesson today about this;

Change your tone, watch the body language.

Hand On Hip

Pointing the Finger

Words that are not nice...

As always, Remember your tone speaks volumes!

Hugs, Roxy

What Doesn't Kill Me Makes Me Stronger...

What doesn't kill me makes me stronger.

Every Morning when I sit at my desk to read my Bible;

I see this picture and quote in this frame to remind me...

"When I was a little girl I think I may have looked just like this little girl"

I usually get a good laugh and a big smile when I read it!

The reason she is smiling because she finally has had enough!

You might ask; Enough what?

When life or people try to quench the joy or make fun of you;

For being old fashion and just a homemaker...

If you are working within your own home

 And your Husband,

Loves and supports you and It pleases the Lord;

We can more then overcome!

There is a time to defend oneself and your family!

We live in a world where the bullies can do as they please and say as they please.

But, I can see where in my life I did stand and prevailed;

Victory has been the outcome!

Everyone will have different battles, but some things are just,

Worth fighting for...

Most battles will be fought within your own homes.

But if you will keep steadfast and stay the course,

You will win the prize!

Sometimes the prize is 

 An overcoming attitude.

Having a home where peace reigns!

A happy marriage.

A home that is filled with laughter!

You will become stronger if you will just say no;

For all the things that are negative and against God's plan for the home!

You are getting stronger; as you take care of what the Lord

Has given you...

Hugs, Roxy

Teach Me To Manage This Household...

 

~Teach Me To Manage This Household~

We all must learn to manage different things;

For many different reasons, but the main reason is to be able

To know how things function and work!

To be accountable, to be in charge, administer; to run; Control,
Lead govern and rule.
I personally like to have my husband hold this part of managing our home.

But I also have a very important part and place for keeping
Our home in a proper functioning place that runs well!

My favorite words to describe managing my household are these words;
Guide, Preside Over, Direct, Oversee.

I think we all love the idea of a well managed home'
We do not like it when chaos reigns!

That is why I believe we like to read and look at magazines that
Show and portray homes that are lovely and organized.
Martha Stewart is not the only one who can manage a household!


Here are just a few suggestions and comments;

Making ends meet financial for your home is so important!
Do not spend more than you make...
Using a list to organize what needs to be done daily, and weekly.

Firstly, may I suggest that you always make yourself ready
Hair, face and smell sweet!
Make your bed!

"Now, I can promise you this, they will expect dinner"
Get a dinner going early in the morning...
Thaw out your meat or bake a dessert, wash veggies!

Look for ideas often to better learn cleaning tips!
Keep the laundry going, so it does not overwhelm you!

Trust me,
 I do not clean all the time, But I do keep my kitchen clean and tidy!
My bed has clean sheets weekly!

Learn to make small, quick, inexpensive meals!
Buy the staples on sale.
Order online, so you have no impulse buying!



Sometimes we must weather the storms that life will bring our way!
And if your home usually runs efficiently,
 You may not be thrown too far off track!

I think that we all can use advice from others no matter our age;
Or season of our lives and our family dynamics.

Share any advice you might want to with other ladies in the comments.

Always learning...
Love, Roxy

How To Work From Home For Christ...

~Homework For Christ~

What I personally love is being able to work for Christ 

Right within my home...

I must admit that every single day I can find so many things,

That I can do from home and for my home and family;

That it keeps me busy and out of the worlds sight.

Being at home has taught me so many things;

I can serve the Lord with greater clarity and quietness.

Too many women can find themselves worried that they,

May not be doing kingdom work.

But working for Kingdom ministry outside the home or in the spotlight

 Are taking many women away from home.

We must not fret or worry about not finding time;

For outside work, or a public ministry.

Homework for Christ can be much more appealing and appropriate.

The work of Christ is not all found in the things we do in Church.

It has taken many years to realize that what I do in my home,

Is a powerful witness to a world that longs for love and peace.

Many women, once they raise their children will have more time;

But for me it seems I have less energy or time.

So I still focus on my own home.

I like to think that whatever I set my hand to do;

I do all in Christs name.

Let my toil of each day bring grace and a sweet home!

May my prayers cover my home

May the meals I prepare be filled with love

May kindness grow up like a well watered flower garden

The place I want to be "Sactuary of Home"

Good works done in faith...

Unselfish toils within your home may be unseen;

But never un-noticed by those that live there or may come to visit!

I am still a work in progress, but I know that as I strive to do

The homework He has given me, I will take each day and carry

My list of things to do, To the Lord in Prayer...

Blessings, Roxy

The Healing Benefits Of Lemon Balm Tea...

Lemon Balm Tea

I have discovered that I truly enjoy a cup of Lemon Balm Tea!

Some Herbal teas are just a bit tangy or strong; But this is mild and light!

I have been drinking it for quit a while, and I have not looked into

The benefits of drinking it. So I decided to look into it!

What I found was a pleasant surprise!

It's great for your nerves, it was once called a nerve tonic.

Helps improve your sleep patterns and quality.

Lemon balm is also believed to treat a range of medical disorders affecting the digestive tract, nervous system, and liver.

Today, lemon balm is used in traditional medicine as both a sleep aid and digestive tonic.

 Lemon balm (Melissa officinalis) is a lemon-scented herb known for its calming and anti-inflammatory effects.

But, I am sure there can be some side effects also!

Once again, everything in moderation, including herbs and supplements.

And of course, all the different food groups!

I really think the best course of action is to know your own body!

Some foods will wreck havoc on your system,

Everyone is so different!

Getting on the bandwagon for any one thing has never been good!

A little here, a little there!

Just like caffeine, it can be really tough on your system,

But a small cup also has great benefits!

You can make any kind of tea time special!
You can make your morning coffee the catalyst to get moving!

I always have a large array of different teas and coffees,
To enjoy myself and to offer friends and family.

I also enjoy having many different designs and shapes of mugs;
And of course teacups...

Irish Breakfast Tea is one of my very favorites!

Make even the small moments special...

May you all take the time to sip your tea or coffee and enjoy your day!

Hugs, Roxy