~Mastering The Art Of Letting Go~
Good Day To You All, I want to address a topic that is so prevalent
We as the parent of raising our children were never taught the topic
Of rejection of one's own children or from the mates they have chosen.
I have seen various examples of this devastation!
We never dreamed we would be rejected or not given the place
Of honor or acceptance in their new lives.
Now I am not talking about the parent being contentious or controlling
Or degrading of the children's relationships or choices.
But rather this very odd turn in their voicing or treatment
And their odd request is ever changing!
Look, I am all for establishing boundaries in families and relationships!
But this is something different!
It is cruel and controlling and seems to be done from anger and fear.
I have seen so much of this from so many older ladies I have known!
It breaks the hearts of these women to have this happening.
But I also have learned the fine art of mastering the exit!
If we are not wanted or being refused, we must learn to let go and let God!
Fighting these kinds of assaults are not easily done in our own fighting.
We must stop the fighting and whining and let go.
We must carry on and learn to live even if we are being ostracized.
When our children were young we never dreamed they would
Sometimes this happens when they marry someone that does not
If you are experiencing this very thing I am so sorry,
It hurts and causes division!
But if you will just let go and no longer respond and continue to
Whys and How Come!
Look, just because we raised our children in church or homeschooled them
Pray for them to have their hearts come home!
Write the grandchildren
Live for what God has still allowed in your life!
If you will trust God and see how He will work it all out!
It may take years, but I believe that once you let go;
They will come around once it is their decision to allow you to
Be a part of their nucleus!