How to Pick A Brides Maid And Your Maid Of Honor...

 

How To Choose Your Brides Maid's

What Should You Look For In A Brides Maid?

 Or A Maid-of- Honor To stand up with you

In your Wedding?

I'm writing this post on this topic, because I have seen 

Disastrous situation's from having someone in your wedding party,

Completely ruining a lovely wedding!

Now, as we all know a wedding is one of the most important

Ceremonies in a couple's relationship.

And this is something that is actually a covenant made with God!

I know the Bride may feel she must ask family members,

To be a part of her wedding party!

Or asking an old friend that does not hold her values.

I know it can be a sticky situation!

Your feeling pressured and Mothers and Mother in laws

Can put you on the spot!

But after being a part of weddings and being a guest

at Weddings for years, I have obsrved how bad choices of who is

in your wedding, can ruin the atmosphere.

I may be old fashion, but it seems to me that if you are standing up

 for a Bride and Groom to make a vow to stay together for life.

Would you not want someone who will help you to cherish your marriage?

Not, disagree with their choice.

And to be happy for them and desire to celebrate their union?

Drama and the look at me syndrome is not apprpriate for a brides maid.

Marriage ceremonies should be holy and sweet!

You are there to serve and help the Bride!

Not to take control and to overcome everything.

So this all being said;

Pick those that will love and support you!

Standing up along side someone in a marriage ceremony,

Is not a play but a serious matter in the site of God!

I have seen Brides so hurt and devestated by the actions,

of those she picked to stand with her.

And if they do not respect your Husband to be;

Do not choose them, just to be polite, or to please others!

Your Wedding Day Should Be Special And Filled With Love!

~Surround Yourself With Those that Will Make It The Best Day Ever~

Live And Learn And Love

Blessings, Roxy