My Sweet Girl

 

Happy 30th Birthday


Where does the time go?
Happy Birthday!

We are all having Birthdays every year!
REALLY...

I have learned to love Birthday's!
I know over the years we may have one that make us
Feel like a milestone has come, and gone :)
Smile and rejoice..
Grow in grace and wisdom...
Ask the Lord for clarity and vision.
For He has your day's numbered!

I have loved all the different stages,
Once I realized this is life.

So let's live and take JOY!!

I am having a Birthday next month!
Celebrate with a new song
Sing unto the LORD!

Asking the Lord for greater contentment and peace,
Is true wisdom!

Having the wisdom to be about His work.
Having a heart of obedience.
Being teachable always!

Love to all the Mommas. And Daughter's!
Sister's and Girlfriends!
We are helping and to mentor one another,
Through every Day and Season!

Blessings,
Roxy

Days Gone By

 

Fall In Love!

 

This is just the most amazing thing!

 

The changing of the season's...

 

I always feel a little sad when a season ends!

You finally just get use to something, and BANG...

It changes!

Like, I just got use to having my kids around,

And what do they do?

They grow up and leave home.

May I always remember!



Just what I learned from the last season :)

 

 

You all have heard the old saying:

Hind sight is 20/20

 

But, I believe we can call to remembrance,

All the good things!

 

Sending you all good and loving memories;

Of the days gone by.

 

Blessings,

Roxy

Our Bedroom Makeover

 Here is a picture of my old drapes.

Ten years ago I really liked them!

They were a very pretty pattern and very thick material.

I always have to line my drapes becaus my Hubby works nights.

I already had taken down all the pictures, when I thought,

take some before and after pictures for my blog. 

 

 



 This room has very tall ceilings.

Two long walls and of course to short walls.

Which means only two walls to work with for a big bed and dresser.
There is only plan A for moving the furniture around.

 

 



 Okay You all can gasp...

I had a pink wall,

HAD a pink wall!

Pepto Bismal anyone?

(Really I liked it!)

 Teal carpet...
OKAY

It was in style 20 years ago!

(I really liked it too!)

 

 

Now the after:



 We painted it a very pretty warm golden color.

It made the room so cozy!

It made it so calming and peaceful for us.

 Notice the lush thick beige carpet!

God is so amazing,

 we found this in the back of a carpet store.

It was on one of those big rolls way in the back.

I was praying Lord, help me find a treasure.

This carpet went for $28.00 a yard!

We got it for $2.78 a yard!!

The man said to me lady you got expensive taste.

He said we quit selling carpet like this because people,

do not buy this expensive stuff anymore.

So, it was just waiting for me. 

 My new bedspread,

 pretty white with lovely flowers on it.

 My new curtains!
We spray painted our old lamps black,and
We  bought new lamp shades for them.

 

 

 

 Cutting out these curtains was very hard!

My dear friend Pam came out and helped me!

I could not of done it by myself, as the pattern in this thick

material had to line up just right.

We had three windows to cover in our room.
Thank You Pam!
I Praise God for you!!

 I was smoking hot on this machine!

I did so much sewing on this project my machine

needed a tune-up afterwards.

Amazing!!

All the designs in this print lined up perfect!

 

I am so blessed!

So, in another 20years will the beige carpet be out of style?

The salesman told me that this carpet was over 20 years old.

And God saved it just for me!

 

Blessings,

Roxy

Bringing In The Harvest

 As Far As The Eye Can See!

 

I would like to share my neck of the woods with you all!

It is always so nice to see a part of other people's homes
And where they live, as we all have been placed within
the borders, God has chosen for us!

As we all have experienced the feelings of
Want or Wow, as we wander through Blogs ville.

Some of the Blogs have such amazing pictures.
Others are filled with DIY information!

So many recipe's that make my mouth water :)
Others with very important facts...

Some, that just make you feel comfy and cozy.
And apart of their family.

You are all so unique!

I am learning to be content!

There can be a peace in the country,

 and peace in the city.

For peace is a relationship!

First with God!

Then peace with all those Christ has surrounded you with!

 

Sometimes, when I go to town and on the way back home,

It will just hit me on how far out we actually live :)

 

Where am I going with this you're asking?

(If you're still reading this)

 

Every person out there in Blogs ville is real,

And they have many different faces and situations.

 

But we all have this common thread.

We are living our lives!

Will this post encourage you?

Or will this bring dis-satisfaction?

 

We all have our own lives to live!

Live them well!

This is not a dress rehearsal dear ones!

 

This is your stage, and your words count!

Your Home speaks!!

 

Do not want, what others have.

Rather be who He has called YOU to be!

 

For you dear ones ARE the Harvest!

May we be found bring in the sheaves!

 

Blessings,

Roxy

Lavendar Oil

 Lavender

 

There is nothing like the scent of Lavender!

I truly think this has been my most favorite God given Herb.

 

I use this as a decoration in my home, because it really

Looks very rich and colorful. I like to cut it off the plant,

And place it in different baskets, and place them in my rooms.

 

You can use it in your bedroom or even the kitchen!

 

The fragrance is just so soothing to me.

I love to wear it in the evening as it brings a sweet peace to me.

 

After a long day, it just helps you to feel calm.

And it gives you a feeling of refreshment!

 

 

 

I have been using Lavender oil for over ten years !

The medicinal uses of this oil are amazing!

 

I use it on burns or any kinds of scraps,

It is great for skin problems.

I consider this oil as a beauty treatment for myself.

You can even use it on your tongue for canker sores!

 

My Grandchildren come to me with all their scraps,

As they know this oil helps and will not sting them!

 

I recommend this oil to everyone!

 

Blessings,

Roxy

Good Woman Wanted...

Fishing can be real fun!

When was the last time you really thought about what you're,

Hubby enjoy's doing?

I always enjoy a good laugh when I find some good clean fun!

Life is way to short not to laugh.

Good Woman

Wanted!!

Please, send a picture of boat and motor!

But, this is a real problem for most couples.

We all tend to do our own things.

There are so many Good Woman out there,

Yet, sometimes we just get too busy to take an interest,

In what our Hubby's are doing!

I remember this one newly married Lady I knew,

That while her Hubby was even working on his car,

She would sit there and just chat with him,

And even hand him his tools.

When you show a real interest in what they enjoy,
It can really support and

 Help keep your marriage happy.

  

Examples;

Your Hubby likes to Fish,
 Go with him once in awhile,

Or
Help him get ready to go.

Pack him his favorite foods.

Maybe your man is a hunter,

Show an interest!
 Help him get ready!

Believe me it is a lot of work.

If they enjoy watching sports,

Pour a big glass of something cold to drink

And a big bowl of his favorite snack!

Ask him, who won the game?

Help him not to only work and support your family,

But help him to be able to relax and enjoy!

Building A Strong Marriage!

Blessings,



Be Very Cautious

 I really wonder how many of the  people

I have seen on all the street corner's,

Would really rather work for their food
And not take Charity?

 

I have not seen on any signs lately that say,

"I Do Not Want Charity"

 

I had a very worry some situation this afternoon,

While shopping  today

We encountered a man outside the store

He asked us for any quarters we might have.

Now, I told him maybe on the way out,

But there was a creepy feeling that I was experiencing.

 

So as were were leaving we tried to be quick about it.

He repeated the same thing he said to us on the

way into the store.

 

The thing that really bothered me was how highly agitated,

He was with us.

 

I think we really need to be very cautious in these days!

 

I do want to help those who are struggling!

We must always remember the poor!

 

But, I felt a wee bit threatened in this particular situation!

 

My Hubby, has warned me many times be mindful of your situation!
And your surroundings!

 

So Ladies let's be cautious and use wisdom!

 

Blessings,

Roxy

 

 



How To Come Home...

Coming Home



I have been thinking for a while about this thought!

So many families almost all need two incomes,

Because they are now in a place that dictates this is how it must be.

As I was pondering this thought, I believe what I realized,

Is this:

The very first part of this transition has to be prayer!

Because coming home is a matter of the heart.

We have to get positioned!

Why?

We must go to the Lord and ask for Him to change

Our Hubby's heart, that his desire is for his wife to be able to stay HOME!

This can take quite a while, because everybody's wife works!

We are conditioned to think this is normal.

And we also need time to re-adjust our way of living style!

Our spending.

How are we now managing our HOMES?

Our we showing our Husbands we desire to be HOME?

Not by whining and complaining;

But rather setting the house in order and loving HIM!!

You may just have to sell your home and downsize.

You may have to double up and maybe work a second job for a while

To get out of some debt!

You discuss this plan together!

And just for the record, I get it!

Some women do not want to come HOME,

So this message is not for all women!!

I have seen God Bring many women HOME!

Because the world wants ALL women to leave their children and let the system

Raise and educate the children.

(Your Children)

Now, I am talking about even the first 5 years of a child's life.

So, step ONE is to PRAY!

Make out a prayer sheet and ASK God, how can this be done?

Because He has a plan that will work.

It may take some time, but well worth the investment!

Blessings,

Roxy