Learning To Adapt To Your Husbands Schedule...

Everyday things...

Before I went to bed last night I wrote out a small list of a few

things that needed to be done!

I have found that a list can help me prioritize things that must be done!

I can get overwhelmed at times so I do not always make up a list;

But when I get behind I can see the wisdom of writing out my chores.

1st on my list was baking a cake;

My Husband will ask me every once in a while to make his work crew a

 Pineapple upside down cake, as they really enjoy this!

Now, It was my most important thing to do today, because

He asked me if I would do it!

I find myself making it a point to ask my Husband if there is anything

he needs me to do more him; as he works long hours.

The second thing on my list to do was baking cookies;

When my Husband goes to work I packed him a lunch;

And we all know how wonderful a fresh baked cookie is in one's lunch!

This was a priority because when he eats one of those cookies,

He will think of me...

Trust me it is the little things like cutting their oranges in half,

Or putting a note in their lunch box, or a piece of chocolate!

Third on my list was cooking up a nice pork roast with sauerkraut;

As this is a dish his mother use to make him...

(He likes the way I cook mine now days)

Then I had to change out my tablecloth and placemats,

And then I swept and mopped the kitchen floor.

Oh, and I had to deep clean our bathroom!

And I still need to peel and cook up some potatoes.

Yet, I feel good about having done these things!

My home looks good and smells wonderful!

And Hubby has a nice treat to share with his crew!

"When you put your Husband needs first this will help to build

And strengthen your marriage"

Some days we just need to get our priorities right for each day is different!

Every day is not the same...

That is why we must learn to adapt to our Husbands life and schedule!

Being flexible is a fine art worth learning...

Living The Dream...

Living The Dream...

My dream was to marry and have children and to live in the country!

I know that this dream was given to me by the hand of the Lord;

I am so thankful the Lord gave me a husband that wanted to be

Married and have a family. I think in this world we have so many,

Younger couples that never even plan to marry or to have children.

I heard a friend of mine say recently that she was lonely

 as she also lives in the country, but she said a very interesting come back;

I guess we would be just as lonely in the city...

It is really very true, as so many people do not even know they're

Own neighbors!

I really enjoy the quiet and solitude that the space provides.

Sometimes it does feel lonely;

But I think after we have been in town every day for a week;

We both say in unison, it is so good to be back home.

Where are the young ladies that want marriage;

And to love and honor their husbands?

Where are the ladies who desire to have children and not wait

Till they are finished with law school?

Does anyone want to live in the country?

Well, it really does not matter where you live!

~It is how you live~ 

I will never regret staying married and having children!

But I think we have a generation of people that have made choices;

That will feel empty and self absorbed one day!

I heard a professional today tell me this;

We now look like a city that could be called a ghetto!

I thought "what" She said it is the way people dress and

They do not even brush their teeth!

She said it is a disgrace!

I just nodded my head and said yes, it is true!

If the Lord will put a young woman in your life that you

Might be able to steer in the right direction;

To cause her to have a heart for home and hearth!

Can You Rate Yourself...

Sometimes we can rate our levels of good old fashion common sense.

If we never take the time to look at why we do what we do, we become

Stunted in growing of areas that need to shift and change.

Let's face it, are dynamics change and we need to reevaluate how we live

And what we do in our day.

I find myself not trying new things, like when I was much younger;

But I still think it is important to think about something that you would like to do!

I always like to go or do something new every year!

It always does not have to be something huge or expensive!!

Common sense can usually give you a heads up for what might be a new direction!

If you have not even tried a new food in a decade, then you might be in a rut!

If you think your happiness depends on others, you may be stuck emotionally!

(I have experienced this when my children grew up and left home)

Having a healthy state of mind for me depends on my heart's ability

To move on and to learn new things!

And to take pleasure in simple things!

That feeling of being able to clean out and to make a break of old habits,

Can allow us to revamp and overcome.

I have learned the hard way to rate myself...

I do not want to be naive of what and where I am in this place called life!

When we are learning to change things up, realize that it can take over 30 days to

Reprogram our thinking and our actions!

1-10    Rate Your flexibility

Always, Roxy

Better Choices for eating More Fruits And Vegetables...

 

One thing that always can be seen this time of year;

So many of us try to make a decision to eat better and to make better choices!

I for one think this is a good idea as it resets your internal clock for food choices.

Thinking along the lines of more fresh fruits or vegetables.

I did see a young woman in the grocery store in her yoga pants

She looked totally inspired, maybe she ran to the store!

Just with a cart filled with fresh veggies it looked like a work of art!

But I did want to encourage her, but I also wanted to say;

Just remember those fresh fruits and veggies go limp pretty quick!

Who out there has not had rotten bananas before a few days had passed!

Oh, and the limp celery, but you can usually get that to crisp up.

And those tomatoes that sprout seeds inside (yuck)

These bodies need so many good things...

I for one need protein every morning

Also, if I eat too many fruits with a lot of seeds it hurts my tummy!

Juicing to much to quick can raise the sugar levels and that feels yucky!

So for me the best approach is all things in moderation!

Buy a few vegetables at a time and use them up!

Eat the ones that are in season, as they are cheaper and fresher!

Eat right and light...

Yet, a little sweet for a treat makes a girl happy deep down inside!

I always love seeing pretty bright veggies in a bowl...

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What Else Can I Possible, Say...

Play It Again Sam...

Have you ever just felt like what else can I possibly say?

Well, I can assure you of this, my Hubby would say

You my dear have many more words left to say...

So I guess I will just say what comes to mind!

I love and hate winter

I love it because it is the time of year you can sit by the fire,

And no one thinks you're lazy. And I can put my PJ's on earlier

and no one thinks anything about it.

I hate it because;

1. It is cold

2 It gets dark so early

3 It's cold, oh wait I said that already!

I have been painting my nails some very bright colors, 

Many lovely shades of reds!

It looks so bright and cheery, so now I have gone back to wearing

My rubber gloves while doing dishes! It really does save my hands

from becoming chapped and the nails drying out.

I have walked so far every day this year!!

(2 whole days)

I now have to take my blood pressure twice a day;

Just thinking about doing it makes my blood pressure go up!

Geesh

( Well, that is just makes no sense to me)

I also had to stop drinking coffee because it made my blood pressure

Go much higher, so I now am a decaf drinker...

So now life has taken a whole new turn...

I know you all have so many great ideas about lower blood pressure;

But mine is caused from genetics...

I seem to be praying for so many people who have had some very

difficult times, right now in their lives.

Have you ever had nights you just can't fall asleep?

Well the sure cure is to get out the phone book---

And start praying for everyone in alphabetical order!

(Really, I tried that once)

Remember that commercial with the little old lady eating a hamburger?

She opens it up and says;

"Where's the BEEF"

So you all get my point!

Sometimes it is better to not say anything!

Oh wait !!

"Laughter is good medicine"

Morning By Morning... Spurgeon

Keeping yourself and your loved ones free from either self imposed

Legalistic ideas and things that rob us of just good old fashion enjoyment!

Learning to take pleasure in things that God does not forbid in His Word...

I think many have had enough trial and testing in their lives!

But just thinking that does not stop them from coming.

That is why I am always doing the one thing that helps;

With life's overload and the physical stuff of oneself

or a loved one's struggle.

I am so thankful for the encouragement that I receive from a morning

Devotional and prayer time.

I really do not know how some people make it through a day without

His strength and support from His word!

I am hoping to thrive this new year and not just survive!

I do not want to live in fear, but faith!

I always enjoy when others share with me a word they feel applies

to their lives for the new year.

I have so far heard the word community

Another said Jubilee

Another said to simplify

Well, I do hope we all can be moving in a direction that brings

peace to our lives, but most importantly is to bring God glory!

Some years just seem to bring so many changes;

That was for us last year, so maybe my word may have been

Resolve...

But for this year it just may be 

Trust...

Only God see's the end from the beginning, so that is why

~We walk by faith~

Have you sensed a word from scripture that is a word that

will bring your encouragement this new year?

Blessings, Roxy

Out With The Old And In With The New...

 

We can all start this New Year with a clean slate...

We can start each day with a clean slate...

Out with the old and in with the new!

I have always loved a new journal or a new pen,

Crisp and clean.

I have always liked new beginnings...

We have the ability to do and be and give and respond;

Like never before.

Are you a man pleaser?

Or do you want to please God?

This world has turned into a me program;

Beware and keep your heart pointed to true North

The star that has kept many that have gone adrift;

Say no to the distractions that keep you busy with no real direction!

If you know the Lord there will be a leading to what He has for you!

Restored relationships!

Closer walk with the Lord!

Getting your house in order!

Learning a new skill to better your home life!

Being available to your husband!

Learn to take pleasure and enjoy the moment!

Shake the dust off your feet...

Have ears to hear and eyes to see, 

Awake and smell the coffee!

Do not embrace another year to become more like the world;

But rather desire and strive to be the women, wife and mother that will hear;

One day, well done good and faithful servant,

Work while it is yet day!

Blessings to each and every one of you that desire the encouragement

To each other, to be a Godly woman!

For it is truly a worthy calling!

A Little Sadness As Another Holiday Cheer Ends...

 

There is just something about a soft light of a candle;

But my favorite is a string of twinkling lights...

I must share with you a deep sense of sadness that came over me today.

We decided to take down the Christmas tree and decorations;

As we had the thought it would be good to start the 

New Year out with the house in order and fresh and tidy!

Yes, it was a good idea, but the feelings and emotion of sadness

Just came over me, but I did find myself weeping a few tears.

I always feel such a sweet and tender range of thoughts and emotions at

this time of the year...

I know that it is such a busy time of year;

But there are so many memories attached to Holidays...

The house looked oh so lonely with all the snowmen put away

No more jack frost nipping at my nose!

All the red and white and golden tinsel put into a box and put away!

All my old fashion Santas are packed away!

My tree is down and the needles swept up...

Oh, what a very sad day!

One thing I do to console myself and to keep some Christmas cheer

All year round, is to keep two separate strands of the multi colored lights up.

I place one at the bottom of my mantel and the other is on top

of my kitchen cabinets over my stove.

So whenever I need the soft and comforting light, I just turn them on!

My Mother-in-law always had a strand over her kitchen sink.

She used them as a night light until bedtime.

I also have been using those fake candles with timers on them.

I place one in the kitchen window and some on the tables.

I am missing the Christmas songs and presence under the tree!

I must tell you all this;

I took pleasure in every detail of Christmas this year!

I did a bit of sewing and some baking!

I did get a few Christmas cards sent out!

So as we say goodbye to another Christmas,

I pray you all heard the bells on Christmas Day!

We never know what the New Year will hold...

Live each day by taking pleasure

 And holding memories close to your heart...