Take Time To Refocus...

 ~Don't Be Discouraged~

Now is the time to celebrate...

Forget the stuff that has tried to make you in affective

The things that have accused you and left you in a daze;

They are meant to wound you and to  cause suffering.

Take all the stuff to the Lord and push through.

You have a job to do!

A calling to fulfill!

So many are walking around wounded and hurt.

And may never be able to make things right.

So stop being a victim and don't give that thing power over your life!

We are called to be overcomers...

Ask the Lord how you can start celebrating in His goodness!

Do something special to recognize what God has done in your life!

You don't have to be perfect;

And you do not have to be a victim either.

Arrows are flying everywhere!

So raise your shields high dear ones!

You do not have to be a wounded soldier left to die!

I had to remember who the accuser really is;

Firstly, Focus on Jesus, a heavenly focus!

Make time...

Take time to Refocus...

Fill up your vision and focus with heavenly places.

Because when things get confusing, or you get blind-sighted,

When nagging worries or disappointments hurt your heart.

Push aside these lesser thoughts and worldly distractions.

~You must lock your gaze on God's Son~

Read 2 Corinthians 3:18

The more we focus on Jesus, the more we become like Him...

Blessings and Favor

All The Days Of Your Lives

Hugs, Roxy

Doing What Is Right With Patience And Kindness...

 

~Doing What Is Right~

So much foolishness I see in the world.

So many making bad choices.

But, So very thankful that we can do what is right!

We make choices everyday, all day long!

Firstly, I wanted to look at patience in the heart of a woman.

Patience is a virtue that is so very precious anymore.

That is why we are told to be slow to speak;

And quick to hear!

The good and meaningful things in life take time!

As we learn each day to wait for something,

We are learning patience.

Even in sorrow and troubles we mature.

Bringing new life into this world takes a long time.

Having a happy solid marriage takes patience.

Cooking and baking from scratch.

Making a gift for someone.

We have lost the art of enjoying the journey;

"Take back the joy in taking care of someone or something"

Use your voice, Use your hands, Use your gifts

Be mindful of this day and even the moment!!

This is the day and season to choose to do what is right!

Being quick is not the goal!

To be part of the woke majority is not going to help.

Being all inclusive is not godly.

But, Being kind to all is precious!

Taking joy in the process of all that you have to do is a gift

To yourself and to others!

Don't stop now...

The way you run your race is as important

As in finishing it!!

Happy Spring...

It will be so amazing when we all get to heaven;

And we can fellowship together...

~Keep looking up~

~keep growing in Grace and Kindness~

Hugs, Roxy

May You Aspire To Lead A Quiet Life, But Don't Believe The Lies...

We don't have time for everything...

So we must not become entangled with

The world's misinformation and its folly and chatter.

Those in the intelligence department are trained

to listen to the destructive chatter, to listen for threats

against us!

But,

 We cannot be ignorant of what is being called truth!

What are they telling us?

But I believe the worst part of

This information or propaganda is this!

So many lies being told by our government and media;

If you do not contend for the truth

You may come to believe the lies.

Satan is working hard to keep us ignorant of the truth!

"But I truly believe we can overcome evil with good"

Firstly Fill up the crevices of your time

With the things that matter most.

This will cost something

But it will be worth it.

Have you ever heard the statement

The Deep State?

Or "You're in Deep Doo-Doo?"

I refuse to be ignorant of what the narrative is really trying to do!

Did you see who our officials honored for Woman's day?

Not A Woman!!

Not Mothers Day...

Because they now just want to call us birthing people.

Even the feminism were appalled.

Now, Do you see why it's hard to blog when we are all being censored.

They want to silence us.

These sad state of affairs makes me cringe.

This one of the reasons it's hard to just pretend everything is okay.

It's even more important to dig deep to find the truth!

Don't believe everything they tell you!

This is no different then the false teachers in the Church!

We are warned to contend for the faith and the truth!

So now more than ever we must work hard for the

Biblical womanhood and home!!

Put your apron on!

The Armour Of God...

Gird Yourself

Don't believe the lies!!

Love the sinner, not the sin...

If I was on another social media I would be banned

IF I SAID ALL I REALLY THOUGHT ABOUT THIS HOT MESS

So

Choose the life that is hid with God.

Then your heart will be set on

Things which are above!

Abide in Christ

Stay focused on home.

The only reason for a godly wife

and mother too

leave her home responsibilities

is to minister for the Lord

to someone He has

Directed her to minister to.

And these situations are very rare. 

God will never lead you on a path

if it compromises your calling as a

helpmeet to your husband and

Your high calling work as a mother to your children.

Blessed you will be if you do what you are called to do!

We can only truly do good with God's strength and direction!

I believe every lie will be exposed

I believe what you do in your home can change the world

I believe we must stand strong for the truth!

I believe we must keep the home fires burning!

That's if they don't outlaw our gas stoves and fireplaces!

See what I mean? I could go on for days...

But, I will stop myself for now!

I have cards to write out!

Breakfast to prepare

Laundry to do

Prayers to pray

Thanks for taking the time to read this post...

Hope it inspired you to do what is right!

Don't compromise the truth for the lie...

Hugs, Roxy

XOXO

Don't Be A Toxic Mother-in-Law...

These Vintage Roosters Make Me Miss My Mother in Law

Country Decor

French Country

Farm Country

These Chickens belong to my mother-in-law!

I believe they belonged to her Mother

These are a sweet treasure to me!

She has been gone for a long time!

She was a very special and dear person to me!

I realized that over the years how blessed I was to have

Such a wonderful Mother-in-law!

So I want to title this post-

Don't Be A Toxic Mother-in-Law...

I believe when I was first married over 40 years ago;

I had no idea on how she treated me would impact the rest

Of my relationships!

Think of this family dynamics this way;

You both love the same man.

He now needs to cleave to his wife;

She was kind to me and didn't judge me,

She was patient with me,

She was not critical!

She taught me to crochet!

She made me think I was the best cook ever!

(I wasn't) :)

Here are a few things I remember she did that were huge!

She didn't act jealous of me as her son showed me so much attention!

She didn't choose sides when we were having difficulties!

She made a big deal about my Birthday!

She spoke well about my own Mother!

She honored my efforts at being a wife and a mother!

She walked with me in difficult days, Not over me!

~Don't Be A Toxic Mother-in-Law~

Seek to be a Blessing 

Encourage Them

You can impact her life in many ways,

With being kind and loving and helpful!

We can teach someone without any words!

Don't repeat what she might tell you!

Pray for them daily!

If she compliments something she has made for her son;

Ask her if she might like to have the recipe.

Just because she married your son, this is not a competition!!

Realize it takes time to develop housekeeping skills!

Remember how insecure you were

 When you were but a young bride?

Respect goes a long way, even if you would do things differently!

Make your daughter-in - law feel like family.

Not an outsider!

Don't force your son to choose between the two of you!!!!

Because he will take his bride's side, as he should!!!

Compliment her good qualities!

Trust me she has some!!!!

Never speak negatively about her!

Learn quickly to not do this, as it will cause great damage!

Try to only give advice if she is asking about something!

Be available!

Remember to call and ask if it's okay to come visit.

And maybe once in awhile bring a small little gift just for her!

It is never too late to become a great Mother-in-Law!!

She is the only reason I learned to be a good mother-in-law!

She was teaching me by her actions and responses.

What a blessing to your son to choose to love

The very one he has chosen to be his wife!

~Blessings To Each Every Every Mother and

Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-laws~

 Roxy

XOXO

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The Heart Matters

Everything Responds To A Sweet Disposition...

~ Making These Moments Meaningful~

Just Chilling in this time of cold and snow;

When we can learn to embrace each new flip of a calendar month!

Things slow down and we can get back into a slower routine.

I have found that when you just let the day work for you,

By managing a few things on your daily planner.

Or your to do list is meaningful.

Everything in each day will not be a grand affair,

But more like a steady timeline.

I have found great comfort in the little things in making our home

Comfortable and calm and just enjoyable.

I tell myself that there is no coincidence;

Everything is in His purpose and plan!

He just wants us to respond to his leading and be diligent!

It's not about doing everything perfect or in record time,

But rather just doing the next thing.

When you do what needs to be done in a way

that feels smooth and not hurky jerky!

I think our homes respond to a tender movement;

Not aggressive and rushing about.

I believe everything responds to a sweet disposition!

Even as you go about doing all that needs to be done;

You can be at peace and enjoy what you are doing.

The whole world wants it now,

The quicker the better.

Now, I can't even hear myself think!

Bask in this new month, enjoy and look forward to

what lies ahead in each new day.

For when we contemplate our reasons for what we do each day;

We can see the value of making the most of each task.

After all, we will never have everything caught up;

As tomorrow will be a new day with tasks,

That call for our attention.

Also, once again try to do something each day that

Inspires you and brings you joy!

Doing what is required of me;

And doing something that gives me satisfaction is

a wonderful way to accomplish much!

Blessings, Roxy

XOXO

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