Queen Of The Home

A Lovely Lady

This is one of my most favorite treasures.

I was given this plate as a young women, it belonged to my Grandmother.

This was in my Grandmothers china cabinet as long as I could remember.

I believe this is the very first encounter of a women of a sweet

demure countenance.

 A princess or a queen maybe?

I remember thinking, who is this pretty women, my imagination was sparked.

I always knew in my heart she was real.

Where did she live, in a palace so grand or a castle far away.

I think we as women have such a desire to create and surround ourselves

with beauty.

As I have lovingly taken such good care of this plate, I have wondered

as to if maybe one of my own grand daughters would

find an attraction as I once did?

Or

Has our culture and days of longing for the princess ceased?

Never!

We are all Queens of our own homes!

And this why my dear ladies we long to surround ourselves

with beauty and charm.

We were born (princesses).

Blessings, Roxy

 

Purity

   Purity

Purity may be something we don't see to much of in this

culture today.

I see so many young women who are dressed so scantily.

My heart grieves for them.

Now, these women were guest at a wedding ceremony

and reception dinner.

Now for the record,

I am not in any way unfashionable!

I love the feel of being feminine and classy.

Dressed to the nines, was a statement once used

of women who were well dressed, and elegant.

I just came from a wedding, that was very sweet and precious.

But what I wanted to share was this, that sweet couple

saved themselves for their wedding day,

When they kissed after being pronounced

Man and Wife

It was their first kiss!!

My prayer is this :

that more women will save themselves for the man

that God chooses for them.

What heart aches come from our own impatient

flesh. And the longings of wanting to be loved.

God has always had the hearts of women held,

in His perfect plan of how marriage is

suppose to be.

Now, please understand me here!

I did not do it right myself ladies...

But God's grace is so amazing and His love has covered

a multitude of my sins.

But I felt like crying when I saw this sweet young brides rapture.

Her face was really glowing.

Come on!

Women we are the ones missing out when

we allow ourselves to be joined to someone

he has not vowed to love and cherish us.

To death do us part.

Jesus is coming for his bride,

make yourselves ready. 

Blessings,

Laundry Tips For Ladies Clothing



Laundry Room Before

This is my laundry room, it is functional, but plain and

very blah, and clunky.

I really don't mind washing clothes and doing our laundry.

But when it's not a sweet and tidy room,

and without color and decor.

It is just a plain laundry room!

After make-over


Painted and added new shelf

Painted chicken red, and added new sign.
See the Zote soap?
I also love the red and white  enamel tub.
See my enamel bowl  full of clothespins.


I was able to move right into the laundry room,
after we finished the kitchen remodel.
It was much easier and faster!

I think being able to refresh this room has helped me.
It was so plain jane.  Now it is really
clean and tidy.

I put up  pretty sage green  lace curtains over the windows,
and some pretty stripped green curtains over
our food pantry shelves.

Your clothes are an investment!
I believe it is important to take care of them.

A Few Laundry Tips:

If you want to keep your femine clothes nice,
always wash your things(skirts, pretty tops, sweaters etc.)
separate.
I also have started using only delicate laundry soap,
on my things.  As I have noticed so much fading
in my colors.

Place your under garments in a garment bag:
and wash your bras, but do not dry in the dryer!
Also, If you wear tights place them in a garment bag
to wash, but hang to dry.

And when you start a load, check water level
and pour soap in first.
Add fabric softener in  its dispenser with a bit of water.

Also, wash only your whites and lights together
and
your darks separate.

Do not dry your clothes overly dry!
As this is where shrinking comes in.

And some skirts you can just hang, as with some slacks,
to completely dry.
Hang all your skirts up and tops that you keep in
your closet. And fold all the others.

Iron as you need them, or pick a time that works for you.

Now, I know many of you have large families and
a never ending cycle of laundry.
But washing your clothes separate will pay off!

One wise women said:
Laundry never ends!

Blessings, Roxy

She select wool and flax and works with eager hands.
Proverbs 31:13

His and Hers

His and Hers

We must first dress in what the Lord has provided for us.

The days we are living in our evil.

We would never think of not buckling ourselves

in our vehicles.

Or

Walking on thin ice in the winter.

But we will start our days, before we

have put on our most important

item of clothing.

Our Armour.

I heard a word from a Pastor yesterday

that was profound!

 I believe it is a very timely word.

The very first thing that God

created after the world was the

first family.

He loves the Home and what it

represents.

We must put on our armour each and

everyday. As we are under attack.

If we are not careful the family could be on the

extinction list.

Pray and put on His Word.

I just loved this picture of His and Hers

armour! 

Women Pray for your husbands!

They need to know you are

standing  for and with them.

Building a strong marriage is so important,

and by doing those unseen acts

of humility.

Serving!!

Blessings,



House Keeper Or Homemaker

Home Maker

Or

House Keeper



We have come a long way!

But we still have the beginning call upon our lives!

Times have changed, but the design and purpose has not.

We as women have the ability to make the
choice to be:

Homemakers
Or
Housekeepers

They seem to be doing the same things as job descriptions.
But with a much different heart and approach.

A housekeeper may do all the home duties;
but it is done with a different motive.
A house keeper is working for a monetary wage.
But a homemaker is doing hers with a different heart,
and motive.

I believe I have been in a house that I could tell
that it was running via a housekeeper.
And yet ,most homes I have been to are being managed
by a homemaker.

The difference:

Housekeepers: Very clean and smells like polish and wax.
Very few people in the rooms.
Very quiet.

Homemakers: Very comfy and cozy
Very busy with people coming and going.
Very much filled with talking and laughter.

Both are receiving their wages!
One monetary,
the other eternal and more profitable.

Blessings, Roxy
 

Gentle Beauty...

Grace and Compassion

There is no beautifier of complexion,

Or form of behavior, like the wish to

scatter joy and not pain around us.

By: Ralph Waldo Emerson

There is a presence of grace, that

is unseen, but rather felt

in the heart.

My desire is to be a woman, who

if only for a brief moment of time.

 Is to play out my daily deeds,

 with compassion.

Compassion is not worth anything:

if we only feel pity.

But rather feeling another's

 Sorrow or hardship that leads to help.

Therefore, as God's chosen people,

holy and dearly loved,

cloth yourself with

Compassion.

From:

The Book Of Colossians

Compassion great or small,

is an act of giving yourself to

others.

Blessings,

Roxy



A Sweet Fragrance

A Lovely Fragrance

 

It is a very distinctive and pleasant beauty secret.
 

Our sense of smell is a powerful and complex

thing. We can experience a pleasure by a
lovely fragrance.

I think a very  easy and wonderful beauty secret is to
always wear a fragrance daily.

A light spray or splash of a fragrance you
 love helps you to feel
feminine and pretty.

I have always loved White Shoulders Perfume.

I also have many others I like,
 a sweet Jasmine scent
is amazing. 

 Also, Giorgio I saved this one for special occasions!

I have sweet memories of my Mother
wearing Emeraud Perfume.
It still invokes a very precious memory.

I love to hear someone say; you smell good!
(Especially my hubby)

I have even found a couple spray colognes from the Dollar Store,
That were really quite nice.

The soul deep in prayer

As a hyacinth

Stretches its pillar bloom,

Feelers of fragrance unseen,

To the edge of the room.

By EVERLYN UNDERHILL

 

Blessings, Roxy
 

The Secret Garden

      Welcome 

Enter His gates with thanksgiving!

Take time in this moment

and walk in.

I love the sweet and endearing idea of a gate.

It can just beckon us to come in, as we wonder

what is behind the gate.

I like to think of the secret garden story

or anyone of the books I have read.

That will say something like; as we strolled in the garden .

We really can go to those places

in our imagination.

In our very busy days I have been really feeling the need.

To enter into the place He has given me.

The secret place.

What are some of the things that the Lord has

given you to find pleasure?

This morning I brought out the material pieces,

I have been buying that just caught my eye.

I began cutting out for myself some new aprons.

My aprons are really showing their age. :)

Take pleasure my dear friends in those 

moments of His presence.

So we can carry on and manage our

Homes in peace and Joy. 

Blessings, Roxy