Please Be a Husband, Lover...

 

How to be a Husband, Lover...

Well, it is pretty easy; The only requirement is dying to self!

And consider the cost;

Think not more highly of yourself than you ought!

Prefer Your Husband over everyone else...

Keep your vows on your door-post of your heart!

Renew your vows to him daily in word and need;

(I am not talking about repeating them, but rather living them)

Start each new day with a plan and conviction

Read the WORD

Doing something just for HIM

Dust his desk

Bake his favorite meal or dessert.

Plan a picnic at a park or in your backyard!

Write him a love note:

Tell him he is handsome

Kiss him and hold his hand often!

Ask his advice and use it...

Make sure he has clean clothes

Keep a few shirts and pants pressed

(How your Husband looks, reflects a good wife)

He may be standing at the city gates...

~Please smell wonderful for him

Wear your hair for him

Dress for him~

Watch your mouth!!

You can look sweet and talk like a truck driver

Tell him thank you often

Keep your words kind

(May the law of kindness be upon your lips)

If you are exhausted tell him and ask him to hold you!!

When he comes home, tell him you are so glad he is home.

Give him a few minutes to unwind after his day!

Never tell him over the phone while he is at work,

(How terrible your day is, or what has gone wrong)

Being a Husband, lover is a joy if you will invest and impart

Into him and his life; as there are returns here and in the

Heavens!!

Remember Jesus came to serve us!

Shall we not serve our Husbands, and love them?

Share some of the things that you might do that makes YOU

A Husband, lover!?...

The aged women...teach the young women to be sober, 

to love their husbands, to love their children, 

to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, 

good, obedient to their own husbands, 

that the word of God be not blasphemed.

Titus 2:3-5

Make it and aim to teach others how to love their own Husbands!

This picture was taken at our renewing of our wedding vows last year!

Video Butt Babies...

Video Butt Babies...

Remember Captain Kangaroo?

And Mr Greenjeans?

Okay, I have truly dated myself here!

If you do remember this program, I just need to ask one question.

 When they looked into the hand held mirror, did they

Ever see you watching the program and call out your name?

Well, I watched it often and no, not once did they ever see

A Roxy watching...

I tell you it was rigged!

Children...

Impressionable, fully trusting!

Always watching and absorbing!

Hearts open and tender...

Now there is nothing wrong with allowing a little teaching,

From Television programs or video games.

It is the full time sitting on your BUTT parenting going on that

 really shocks me and makes me so sad for the children!

Because, as they watch these types of learning programs,

they have no way to respond or use all their senses to engage.

And ALL Video games are causing some learning blocks for children.

We are built to watch, hear and respond!

The first thing most children do anymore once they awake

Is turn on the television!

Maybe we have gone to such an extreme measure of using

a television for education and free babysitter.

 We have lost the vision ourselves...

We must take time to instruct and train our children!

Watching television and video games will make your children

Cranky and listless and agitated!

We have a mind and body connection!

Too much of this kind of entertainment causes violence!!

I have noticed children younger and younger

 Having rounder and larger behinds!

Why are we seeing this;

They sit on their Butts all day long...

In school than at home!

Oh, don't worry, You're never home you say??

Have a smart phone (stupid phone)

No worries, you can play a game or watch anything you want

Anytime or anywhere...

Wake up!!

Read a BOOK...

Play outside...

Let a healthy imagination, develop their minds and gifts

Not video games and television.

Old Fashion Or Biblical...

 

Why do we need to be keepers of the Home...

No child will ever tell you how wonderful it was to come home,

after school or from a function and find the home empty!

A Home will only feel alive and special when someone is home...

We think staying at home was for another generation,

The word was not written with a certain time frame in mind.

The only time frame we are yet waiting for is the prophecy still to come.

So many women have left the home that when you drive

Through a neighborhood they seem desolate.

I still can remember when there was a time that Mothers

took their callings to heart.

Even as a Grandmother, I know being home brings great

Comfort to my grandchildren and a few women who are homemakers.

If I am old fashion, then so be it!!

I still think many women want more things and stuff!

And many women say their Husbands want them to work!

Many women love having their children in school

 so they can enjoy some free time for themselves.

Having a large home is more important, than all being in a smaller

home with a Mother Home to really train her children.

I believe it might take faith for a family to say we are going to

believe and trust God's word about keeping our homes.

When I have been gone all day for whatever reason, I come home

to a home with no dinner. And no laundry done.

The home seems empty and seems to ask;

Where have you been all day?

Do we have children asking;
Where have you been all day?
Do we have a generation raising themselves?
Only we can answer that!
Maybe we have gone too far away from this example?
If only a few come HOME will it make a difference?
Is there a movement calling Mothers HOME?
Children just seem so sad and unsettled...
Or maybe it is the Mothers and Fathers who are
really sad and unsettled?
It all comes from the top...
Is Christ changing hearts to come HOME?
Our Fathers wanting the Mother of their children HOME?
HOME SWEET HOME
COME HOME...

The Lord Shall Lift Up A Standard...

 

At times life can be smooth and clear sailing...

You can feel the sunshine on your face and you can see clearly.

But I have learned even when the sea starts to churn and pulse;

We as Christians have a place we can feel His peace.

As the world turns and we can feel the shaking;

God is not shaken...

When the enemy comes in like a flood,

God raises the standard!

We must not look at the waves and whitecaps;

As the water will always cover the shoreline in its continual

lapping against the sand. We can KNOW that when the enemy

comes in like a flood, the spirit of the LORD shall lift up a 

STANDARD against him...

Read this scripture

Isiaha 59:19

 When you see the enemy attacking you or your loved ones!

Isa 59:19

So shall they fear the name of the LORD from the west, and his glory from the rising of the sun. When the enemy shall come in like a flood, the Spirit of the LORD shall lift up a standard against him.

Chuck Smith :: Sermon Notes for Isaiah 59:19

"OUR DEFENSE"
I. THE ENEMY. "WE WRESTLE NOT AGAINST FLESH AND BLOOD."
A. "In the beginning, God created the heaven and the..."
1. Sometime before creation of man, He created angels of various ranks and orders.
2. One of the angels of the highest order rebelled against Him.
a. This angel was described as, "perfect in beauty..."
b. He drew a third part of the angels with him.
3. Originally, only one government in the universe. Light of life.
4. Now a second government.
a. Opposed to the first.
b. Government of death and darkness.
B. The purpose of the enemy.
1. To draw you away from God.
2. "The enemy has come to rob, steal and destroy."
C. The method of the enemy.
1. To appeal to the baser nature of man, to make him a slave to his own fleshly lusts.
a. The effect is always destructive.
b. More obvious forms alcoholism, drug addiction.
c. More subtle form is sex.
2. Thus, to follow the enemy is to follow the path to destruction.
3. To pervert the good, natural, God given drives by seeking unnatural fulfillment.
II. "WHEN THE ENEMY COMES IN LIKE A FLOOD."
A. There are times when we seem to be singled out for special attacks.
1. The pressure is like a flood.
2. We are almost overwhelmed.
3. We recognize that those forces against us are more powerful than we.
a. I don't have the strength to resist the flood.
b. Am I doomed?
III. THE SPIRIT OF THE LORD WILL LIFT UP A STANDARD AGAINST HIM.
A. Though the forces that are against us are strong, that power that God has given to us is stronger.
1. "Greater is He that is in you than he that..."
2. "You shall receive power, after the Holy Spirit."
B. The standard that the Spirit lifts is the Word of God.
1. When the enemy came as a flood against Jesus.
a. He seems to know when to attack.
1. Jesus had been fasting 40 days and was hungry.
2. Use God's power to feed your own flesh.
b. Jesus used the Word, "It is written..."
2. "Thy Word have I hidden in my heart..."
a. The Word of God in my heart is one of my best defenses against the enemy.
IV. WHAT TO DO WHEN ENEMY COMES IN LIKE A FLOOD.
A. "Resist the devil..." James.
1. Peter tells us the devil is going about like a roaring lion...whom resist steadfastly.
2. In Hebrews you have not resisted unto blood.
B. Call upon the Lord.
C. Get into the Word.

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Are You A Late Bloomer...

 

Totally Out Of Sync

I find it rather strange when a plant referred to as a Christmas cactus

blooms in July. Maybe it thinks it is actually a rose...

Roses bloom in June and July!

I had to take a picture of it and share it with you ladies.

Here we are working in our flowerbeds outside and to find this blossom.

Really surprised me, because it never did bloom this last December.

I realize over the many years it has bloomed maybe as late as February.

What are some things we can do to help us when we as

Women feel out of sync?
 As I told you this last month was

A rough one for me. But I have seen a pattern over the years,

And it looks like we have a growth in the Lord,

 then we get challenged and we feel like it is

  a bit of a setback.

Well, I now lean to this thought concerning this cycle.

I believe we are being tested to shore up our growth.

God, wants us to grow by and through the Holy Spirit.

NOT, by our own sheer will power!

A flower is still a flower, no matter if they bloom late or early!

Grace and honor to allow the working of the Word in each of

Our Lives...

As I have aged I notice a stronger drive to create and take pleasure.

Why is everyone and everything in such a hurry?

I pray each of you will allow yourself the space and time;

To bloom and to be beautiful and complete

In Him...