Disrespecting Your Husband...

He looks upon his wife as his most trusted confidants!

Or do you repeat every confidence he speaks to you?

I have heard too many things over the years that I believe were meant

To be private, and unreported.

We must make allowances for some of these things that are spoken;

They may be spoken while tired or angry!

We can all attest to saying something we did not mean to say!

So we must remember that when our Husbands speak in confidence to us,

We are not given the liberty to repeat it!

If you are not sure if it is something you should repeat;

Ask Your Husband if you should mention it to anyone?

I would rather ask him if I should repeat something, then to feel

Very bad that I broke confidence!

He needs to know that He can trust you with his sorrow or frustration!

We all need a safe place to speak about such things!

By keeping confidence you are showing respect for your Husbands name!

We do not want to be the ones bringing reproach upon our own Husbands

And families!

A good name is very valuable...

An older woman many years ago told me this very statement!

She said:

Are you guilty?

We have even done this all in the name of fun!

BIG mistake...

A man needs to be shown honor and integrity!

And if you make light or fun of his sharing his heart he will stop!

Then you whine and complain He never tells me anything.

If you are guilty of this type of behavior ask him to forgive you!

Ask the Lord to forgive you!

We need to learn to ZIP it...

Just because they said it; does not give us permission to repeat it!

And if you are in the habit of speaking badly about your Husband to yourself

(self-talk)

Or to any of the others listed below

Parents, or children, or girlfriends, you are sinning!

As an older woman I beseech you to stop this disrespecting

Of Your Husband...

Ask the Lord to set a guard over your mouth!

Strawberry Fields...

This lovely Old Bread bowl is just filled to overflowing!

We picked these lovely sweet and juicy strawberries, while

We were back East visiting family!

Strawberries...

Strawberry Shortcake

Strawberry Bread

Strawberry Jam

Strawberry Smoothies

John 15: 1-9 speaks of only three amounts of fruit being produced

Fruit

More Fruit

Much Fruit

In our lives, these are the only levels we are producing at!

Does your life have Fruit?

How about More Fruit?

We are looking for MUCH FRUIT...

Have you been experiencing pruning in your life?

If we are not being pruned you will not be able to bear more fruit.

Strawberries grow in the fields and they can bring a good harvest,

If many conditions are available.

Sun and rain and mulch!

Fruit from the Lord in our lives will be sometimes visible,
And other times it may take a while to see it!

Do we always have to have the biggest strawberries?

Actually the smaller ones can be very sweet!

I was wondering if size has any meaning at all when it comes to Biblical fruit,

But rather as to how MUCH...

After a lovely morning of picking fresh sweet strawberries we,

Then we washed them and smashed them and poured them

Over shortcakes and topped it with ice cream and whipped cream!

May each and every one of you bear MUCH Fruit!

It does not require labor and work;

But rather abiding in the vine...

Beware Of The Dog...

Alpha Dog

There is one in every pack!

In the hen house we call it the pecking order!

Aggression in animal or human causes distress!

I have never enjoyed bringing a new dog on the scene

 when they are larger in size!

I find myself feeling like I am not safe or comfortable.

There is an instinct that just reacts!

Just for the record, I am not a Dog Whisper...

I have noticed that even people need to be handled with caution.

So many people in the public arena seem like they are just maxed out!

Life for many of them are feeling more burdens than
 God ever intended

for them to carry!

I am so grateful to have a safe haven where I can lay my burdens down!

I heard my pastor say that these are perilous days...

Yet, we cannot be afraid or allow ourselves to be captives

 in our homes or cities!

We must pray for protection and use wisdom,

And still be about Our Father's business.
We must walk in holiness and His righteousness.
Walk in integrity and sincerity

I have noticed if I just walk in humility and love, I can feel

The atmosphere change so people do not feel challenged!

I have the desire to see the aggression dismantled,

Are we to allow this alpha spirit or attitude to control or ruin,

Our homes and church assemblies?

I do not want to be the Alpha,

To be in control over others with either my words or body language.
For I shall walk in Christ's authority in
Love and meekness...

May we look to Christ and His Word to help us to be humble,

But wise...

Philippians 4:13

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

Gathering Rose Petals...

Gathering Rose Petals...

The Roses are still blooming, so it is a good time to

Gather the Rose Petals...

This winter you will be so glad to have some rose petals put back

 for making some gifts! Or just for your own pleasure!

They always look so pretty in a bowl or on a pretty plate.

Dear Sweet Ladies, I have a confession to make!

I am a homemaker who loves her home!

I do not desire to travel and see the world?

I can stay home all day with no inner urge to just get out of this place...

I can clean my kitchen and not get irritated that I will be,

messing it up very shortly with the next meal.

I have come to realize there is no such thing as the last load of laundry.

I am not embarrassed that I do not have a degree.

I use a spell checker!

I have gray hair and my hairdresser knows!

The Lord is my stronghold in times of trouble;

and my help for every minor thing also!

I am simple in most things,

Yet I can think up more rabbit trails, then most!

I want an older pastor to teach me...

I do not want to get to Big for my britches...

So in saying all this;

I will stop to smell the Roses, while they are still blooming;

and not wait until. 

 All I have left are the petals!

Thank you all for being my friends via

this blog...

How To Make Easy Lemonade...

Lemons and Limes

These always make me feel refreshed...

 How I make my refreshing lemonade.



My lemonade recipe is very easy and it is tasty!
Also This Is a Very Frugal way to prepare a refreshing beverage!

I use my 1/2 gallon pitcher

3/4 cup sugar

1/2 cup Real Lemon juice

Add water

Stir well

Chill it well then serve it over ice!
You can always add a slice of fresh lemon in the glass!

I have been making this lemonade this way for almost 30 years.

It is quite cheap and it tastes very fresh.

I only use the Real Lemon juice brand as it is stronger in flavor.

I buy it in the large 2 packs from Sam's club.

My kids are grown and now my grandchildren drink this lemonade.

I know people may squeal over the sugar in it, but it

is more of a real and natural alternative to pop and sweet drinks.

No dyes and no preservatives.

We drink this all year round not just in the summertime.

I also make up two 1/2 gallon pitchers at a time.

 And put one in the back fridge.

Lemon Lemonade is a sweet memory that we all enjoy!

Try it, I think you will find it very delicious.



Headwaters...

Peace like a river...

There are so many twists and turns;

Deep waters and calm waters;

Clear water and murky waters.

Fast and furious
But a River only flows in one direction...

Wild currents, and sedate pools.

Yet all part of the very same stream of water.

Every stream or river has a starting point...

The Lord spoke to me one time and He said the word to me;

Headwaters...

I have pondered and prayed about this word many times!

I find my peace in Him,

My Headwaters...

Always flowing fresh and powerful,

New and Living waters...

Why drink from a tiny wee cup when we have a fountain;

pure and never runs dry.

This world will pull you along sometimes so strong that the current,

Can and will take you under. But a good strong swimmer

takes precautions and stays out of the currents.
Keep a watch for false doctrine;
Always check the scripture and read above and below
in content of what is being taught!

Staying away from rough waters ahead is just plain old fashion wisdom!
Because we know that storms are coming;
In the natural and the spiritual!

Yet we are called to sit beside the still waters;

to refresh ourselves!

Come sit a while and listen to the water bubbling and flowing;

To a place where it is flowing into another body of water.

Flowing and Growing and gaining wisdom and strength.

Headwaters, The source from which something proceeds 

or is supplied.

Have you made the Lord Jesus Christ your headwaters?

He Loves Me He Loves Me Not...

Steadfast and Loyal...

A Faith that fizzles before the final;

Had a flaw from the first!

(This was a quote a pastor of ours use to say to us many years ago)

Who comes to mind when you think of the statement;

Steadfast and Loyal?

Is it your Husband?

Maybe a dear friend.

How about a sister or brother!

Maybe a Pastor!

Love now days seem so fickle;

Little things said or perceived cause you to pull back or away;

He said the wrong thing!

Did you notice the way she looked at me?

I just felt a funny feeling about them!

I think most love has an expiration date attached to it!

Time's UP

I seem to remember a verse that says something like this

Love is patient

Love is kind

Love thinks no wrong...

Ever feel like sitting down with a daisy flower

And start pulling off the petals and repeating

He loves me;

He loves me not...

We had better start shoring up our hearts folks

Things are changing!!

We are all looking for someone who will be steadfast and loyal.

Be that person yourself...

Do not being easily offended!

Stop trying to read every emotion as negative or it's just about you!

Quit thinking only of yourself!

I am learning and growing and I need to be ready to stand

And love when I might feel like He loves me NOT.

The enemy always wants to isolate you!

Be quiet and learn to love your own!

Do not look for love in the wrong places or people!

God is LOVE

To love others with no agendas or expectation!

I think of that scripture that warns us that the 

Love of most will grow cold... 

Please Be a Husband, Lover...

 

How to be a Husband, Lover...

Well, it is pretty easy; The only requirement is dying to self!

And consider the cost;

Think not more highly of yourself than you ought!

Prefer Your Husband over everyone else...

Keep your vows on your door-post of your heart!

Renew your vows to him daily in word and need;

(I am not talking about repeating them, but rather living them)

Start each new day with a plan and conviction

Read the WORD

Doing something just for HIM

Dust his desk

Bake his favorite meal or dessert.

Plan a picnic at a park or in your backyard!

Write him a love note:

Tell him he is handsome

Kiss him and hold his hand often!

Ask his advice and use it...

Make sure he has clean clothes

Keep a few shirts and pants pressed

(How your Husband looks, reflects a good wife)

He may be standing at the city gates...

~Please smell wonderful for him

Wear your hair for him

Dress for him~

Watch your mouth!!

You can look sweet and talk like a truck driver

Tell him thank you often

Keep your words kind

(May the law of kindness be upon your lips)

If you are exhausted tell him and ask him to hold you!!

When he comes home, tell him you are so glad he is home.

Give him a few minutes to unwind after his day!

Never tell him over the phone while he is at work,

(How terrible your day is, or what has gone wrong)

Being a Husband, lover is a joy if you will invest and impart

Into him and his life; as there are returns here and in the

Heavens!!

Remember Jesus came to serve us!

Shall we not serve our Husbands, and love them?

Share some of the things that you might do that makes YOU

A Husband, lover!?...

The aged women...teach the young women to be sober, 

to love their husbands, to love their children, 

to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, 

good, obedient to their own husbands, 

that the word of God be not blasphemed.

Titus 2:3-5

Make it and aim to teach others how to love their own Husbands!

This picture was taken at our renewing of our wedding vows last year!