Are You Comfortable With A Handshake Or Are You A Hugger...

Lately, I have been noticing a difference in the way I have been greeting people.

By nature I am a hugger...

With my dear friends I tend to give them a hug!

With girlfriends I of course just lean in and hug them.

With the opposite sex I lean into their side shoulder, (side hug)

It has been a bit of an uncomfortable practice in the last decade!

So lately with finding myself feeling awkward when meeting new people

Or greeting someone from the opposite sex;.

I have chosen to extend my hand and offer a handshake.

I have looked on at some very inappropriate hugs in the last decade.

I realize things are changing and affection has an opened end to it!

We as women need to be aware with what our hugs demonstrate.

Better to be reserved and use caution then to give a hug we are not 

Comfortable with and can be seen as an open door.

Years ago I would not even considered writing a post like this!

But I was even thinking of the scripture that tells us to stay away from

Even the appearance of evil.

Wrong touch and contact can cause problems.

Also, I just wanted to mention that, make sure you give a

Good handshake that says hello and not a cold fish or limp hand!

How do you greet your friends?

And how do you greet a new person?

So you like older men to hug your daughters and granddaughters?

You Can Learn To Become An Excellent Wife...

When we first got married, I would say I had much to be desired in being

"Called and excellent wife"

Being a wife can be the most glorious place for a woman to become all that her heart desires.

But as we all can attest to is the truth that it require's strength and endurance!

If you were one of those young ladies that had a Mother that was a godly example,

Then you had a head start on many of us.

We never really stop learning the ways that create a truly good marriage.

I think we have a culture that is in place that through their media productions,

we have lost sight of the truth of a wholesome marriage.

We have seen men leave their wives in droves;

Women have left their marriages

We have a problem...

How can we overcome?

We do the next thing that will bring glory to God!

It may just be changing the way we speak to our husbands.

(Our tone shows respect)

We can just stop what we are doing and truly listen to what hey are saying.

(Being a good listener)

We can ask someone to give us some guidance in our marriages.

(Having accountability)

We can read a few good books on the subject of being a good wife.

(Resources are a valuable tool)

Look, becoming an excellent wife is no easy task!

But if you will commit to learning and growing in this high calling,

You will  never regret the rewards, some will be here and now.

But mostly they are heavenly accounts in your name.

God tells us that marriage is His idea...

Every hard day and year

Every horrible fight or little disagreement

You can overcome...

God has given us support and guidance!

There are women out there that have stood the test of time!

God wants our marriages to be healthy and pure!

We have a very tough fight on our hands!

Do you want a good marriage?

Do you believe your marriage could use a refreshing lift?

I have a few books like the one in the photo;

I pull them off the shelf and reread portions of them!

Then I try to implement something that will spark or help me in an area that is lacking!

Take your marriage seriously!

Do something everyday!

I want to thank the Lord for placing those Godly women in my life!

And for the direction of using a few good books to glean from!

Blessings,

Living From Glory To Glory

Why Laziness Will Bring Ruin Upon Your Homes...

 

Laziness 

If you don’t think laziness is a problem in America,

 Consider the fact that we have a chair, the “Laz-e-boy,” tailored to and marketed to the American home.

And it sells! 

Laziness, much like selfishness, is bent toward the self,

 But it gets its marching orders from the comfort committee.

 We desire the comfort and refuse to do anything difficult because it could be uncomfortable.

 Laziness is chiefly about preserving and promoting the perception of personal comfort.

 And laziness becomes a lie to yourself and others!

 We should know when there is a problem in our marriages and our homes,

 And we should also know that it requires a change, perhaps even a painful change.

 So what happens? 

"Laziness say's, “Oh, I’ll get to this another time.”

 Or laziness says convincingly, “It’s not that bad. 

Waiting to later can result in a broken marriage!

Your home turning into a broken down shack!

Laziness is a terrible crisis in our culture!

Time and energy is a gift from the Lord!

Get busy and spring clean your homes!

Get busy and give some attention to your marriage!

Get busy and clean up your yards!

Do not be like the slugger, or sloth!

Work and use your time wisely...

Hormones In All Their Glory...

 

When I feel the weight of a long day, I tend to seek quiet and comfort.

Our days are a bit like the weather;

Or shall I say a bit like hormones...

I am glad that I am not programed with set responses.

Yet, I do not want to live my days controlled by hormones.

I guess you could say we can't live with our hormones

or

Without them!

As a woman we have been given the gift of hormones!
But as anything if we have to much or to little it can be a problem.

But in our modern day our foods are ladened with hormones,
But these hormones can cause other problems.

We need hormones...

When we are in our teens those hormones can rage.

But as we age, we can become low in certain ones.
I personally have chosen to take a very low dose of Estrogen to help me!
I really did not want to take it, but the quality of life;
Is maybe the better choice right now!

Do you find yourself feeling a bit weepy?

I have found myself feeling weepy in the long evenings.

I find myself crying as I watch Hallmark movies.

I can sit down and look at old photos and feel a sadness that all those
 Sweet memories, have come and gone...
 Yet, it seems like they happened just last week.

I am so thankful to have these photos of my memories as I can see visually 

they have played a big part in who I have become today.
And I can also see the changes of our growth.

A wife that has been loved well!

A Mother that had the joy of raising them into amazing adults.

A Grandmother that has a blessed inheritance!

Sometimes I just need a good cry...

WHAAAA...

Sing As Onto The Lord...

A New Song

God loves to hear his people sing.

He created us to sing;

Children so easily sing and hum, it is very precious!

Women who have trained themselves to have a song in their hearts!

Will have a resource that will bring peace and calming in many storms.

After all, we are called to bring a joyful noise unto the Lord!

I  feel bad that I do not have any natural or trained musical ability;

But, it has not stopped me from singing and giving praise!

A heart that is filled with a hymn or a song of praise;

Will always have a chance to turn complaining around;

A song that is in your heart is like a bird that cannot contain its song!

When you are alone, it is so sweet to sing a song to the Lord!

Sing while you're doing your dishes.

Sing as onto the Lord!

I always remember the scripture where He is singing over us!

God serenades us everyday...

Hear the birds singing

Hear the wind blowing

Hear and feel your own heartbeat!

God is the great conductor!

May your life have harmony as a symphony that moves us!

We all have heard the statement;

~She moves to the beat of her own drum~

As it should be when we are in rhythm of the Lords timing...

May a New Song of gratitude spring up and be sung...

Nothing on earth is so well suited to make the sad merry,

The merry, sad, to give courage to the despairing,

to make the proud humble, to lessen envy and hate,

as music.

~Martin Luther~

Living From Glory to Glory

Hind Sight Can Become 20/20 Vision In Our Lives...

Hind Sight Is 20/20

We can learn to become wise women by learning from our past!

I am not saying always ponder your past, because that is not wise in itself.

Some things just need to stay in the past;

What I am referring to, is the things that we can now see that we may have

Had a different outcome if we had done a few things differently.

A wise woman learns from her mistakes.

A wise woman grows when she is teachable.

A wise woman does not keep track of wrongs done to her!

A wise woman becomes wiser because she makes time to reflect!

~There is a difference in reflecting and mourning the past~

We can become stuck in what we thought it was all going to look like.

Sometimes I enjoy putting on those Rose colored glasses!

Sometimes the cold hard bare facts are just too much for me!

The Pollyanna syndrome can be a lovely thing...

Be free to express your true feelings;

(But not at the expense of creating a chasm that has no bridge)

As we can all attest to the very sad or difficult separations that have

Appeared for just wanting to be right!

But my point is this;

There are times we have missed an opportunity to speak from the heart;

Just maybe when we had a opprounity and the timing was right!

We may have missed it;

So I do want to speak to those I love or those who need correction.

With a word of wisdom...

Sometimes it can be just from your years of wisdom or

A scripture or a biblical truth...

We need to be brave!

We need to ask them, please can I share with you from my heart?

I need to say this or I may have regrets that I stayed silent!

But we also know this fact, sometimes it is better to say nothing at all!

But we now can have 20/20 vision in some areas of our life.

If we will read and study the word, to gain a heart of wisdom!

So next time we cannot go down the same wrong road expecting a different result!

See, we now can see clearly...

If not put your Rose colored glasses back on for a bit!

Saying I Love You...

 

Saying I love YOU...

~Some words carry weight and life~

Why we must be asking these questions,

Why do you love me?

Why do I love you?

Because without love, we would die a slow and painful death!

We are warned in scripture that the love of most will grow cold...

If I wrote a bestseller book and had not love

If I lived in a mansion and had not love

If I knew hundreds of people, but had no friends;

Love is a commodity worth millions...

Love is a terrible thing to waste,

But we all know we can not love everything that some people are doing!

Love the sinner, hate the sin!

If you have been given the chance to extend true friendship;

Honor it

Grow it

Keep it

I Love You...

Because He first loved me!

Trying To Find Time...

Trying To Find Time...

What are some of the lovely and satisfying things that you just long to do?

I really do enjoy sewing and making aprons and cloth dish towels.

And my new fun favorite thing to do is make little tea bag fabric holders.

Any more I need smaller projects so I can get them done quicker.

It would help if the darn thread stayed threaded in my machine;

(I think the hole in the needle is shrinking)

When I do get into town and I always find myself in the fabric store!

(Might need to join Fabric Hoarders Anonymous)

I have a drawer full of fabric, but I just can't help myself at times...

Are you ladies finding it harder to get to those projects that you

really enjoy doing?

Sometimes I just have to tell myself today is the day I will sew!

I think that when we just always do the normal housework;

And we do not just do something that makes us sing deep down inside.

We can become tired and a bit stale in our imagination.

Once Spring gets here and I do believe it is peeking its head out,

We will once again have yard work to do and planting!

I think we have the change of seasons so we can have a

Long winter's rest inside so we can really enjoy the fresh outdoors,

Come spring and summer.

I do hope to finish a few things this next week!

(Well, that is if;

The Lord willing and the creek don't rise)

I think we just need to have something to look forward to.

Hope you have some plans to do something special!

Work and pray and enjoy...