How To Become Self Motivated?
I have heard so many people say, I can hardly get myself motivated!
I truly feel bad for these individuals'
Because generally speaking, we all could feel this way!
I asked a young lady the other day what she does all day long,
It just shocked me that her response was;
I just sit around all day,
"She said some people think that is boring, but, I don't"
But her response was this is what she has been doing all along since she has gotten married!
She has been married for at least a year and has a newborn,
She told me she was bottle feeding so her husband can get up through the night to help feed,
"She said so she can sleep!"
Now I don't have a problem with formula feeding,
And I think its great for any help the Father wants to help with!
So do not take this out of context,
I tried a comeback to her, do you like to read?
She said I have some books, but I just look at them!
This not the Baby Blues!
I was told she does nothing;
She waits for her husband to get home, he works a lot of hours!
So then he has to make dinner and clean!
So is this just an isolated incident?
Are we all becoming unmotivated?
Or is it just a few lazy people...
How can you help yourself?
How can you help others?
I believe we are all suppose to carry our own load!
We are all responsible to work and make our lives and homes profitable;
With being clean and cozy and welcoming!
Some things to help you become trained in becoming Self Motivated
Making a list daily
"Write down what needs to be done"
Have a list of things that need to be done this month.
And things that need to be done daily!
Tell yourself that you must be productive!
Tell yourself you will not be lazy!
Be proud that you are setting your hand for a job that needs to be done!
Be intentional about your life habits!
Be focused!
Motivation for being a doer, is not any different than training for the Olympics!
"It takes every single day to work to stay ahead and to gain ground"
Learn how to do tasks in the most efficient way
Keep track of your progress
"I also like to write down what I have done that was not on my list!
Being a motivated person, requires a plan!
Even doing something small will start you flowing to complete a job!
I will ask myself this "Do you want to be like a sloth?"
My heart goes out to that young woman,
She will one day pay a high price for not wanting to work or to learn and grow!
We must never stop moving in the direction of accomplishing tasks!
If you will but ask for help, take advice, seek wisdom.
You will grow into a stronger motivated person!
Maybe we all need a life coach!
If you see someone that might except some help, give it!
If this young new Mom would allow me to help her I would;
But as we all know some people are not willing to allow someone to help!
That's another post for another situation...
But I will be calling her to ask if I might call her or text her to encourage her!
Blessings, Living From Glory To Glory