The dressing down in America is so upsetting in our world today!
So many women look like frumps;
Or we have the other extreme of women who looks so provocative;
You may find yourself wondering is this a brothel
And this is in the church today...
The church has become a place for the world to come in to see if the shoe fits;
Or how far do I have to go to look like a God fearing woman??
Does all this really matter?
YES...
As I walked through a very large airport this last year I was shocked at what I saw!
But I felt more shocked at what I see in our churches today.
I am not a prude and I do like looking fashionable
Both seductive and alluring is not acceptable...
I did a post on why we should not show cleavage awhile back
You can view it here
Cover Your Cleavage
But now I must do another post for the derriere (bottom half)
Tight pants and skirts and dresses that accentuate your plump bottom
Excites men of all ages...
You my dear become a distraction and a source of allowing yourself
~To rob God of HIS Glory~
As a woman we are to give a visual of hiding what is beneath.
This is really what makes you alluring;
We can also look like a Nun in a full habit and still be provocative;
So we have here ourselves a real problem
Can we just cover all the female parts and be void of this problem?
NO...
We seem to have too many women not doing their job;
of speaking to ladies and girls on how to dress!
And being an example!
And we have so many who feel they have the right to dress any way they choose.
Okay, maybe we can not stop this trend of dressing like harlots;
But we can still teach and preach and at times confront in love.
But I will warn even if it is done in love they will be mad and offended!
It is like we have lost all sense of womanly features of the term ladylike!
And believe me, those who are lovely and ladylike in their style,
They are like a picture of loveliness...
We may need help in what is appropriate;
(Don't get all frustrated over this statement)
Ask God, if what you're wearing is okay!
And, I love this one;
I asked my Husband and he said he doesn't care what I wear...
So if he wants you to wear a revealing top in public is this okay?
Or Daise Duke shorts...
Sometimes ladies you could ask your husband if what you're wearing is okay,
But if he has not made a covenant with his eyes and watches P_ R_
He would not be a good choice to use...
To dress more femininely, you should wear flattering clothes that aren't revealing.
Wear more ladylike clothes such as skirts, dresses, pointed shoes, a cute pair of boots,and scarves,
Wear slacks or jeans that are not too tight!
A lovely blouse or anything that distinguishes you as a woman and a lady.
You don't have to look buttoned up, but you can should avoid looking too provocative.
Wear anything that has feminine features.
You can find the look that's best for you. If you really don't look good in skirts, go for something else like a loose flowing slacks with a long tunic type.
If you do wear jeans...
Do not wear the skinny jeans!
Just avoid the "just rolled out of bed" look. Don't wear baggy sweatshirts,
Baggy pants, long T-shirts, or anything that completely hides your shape.
The over large bag look!
Unless you're going to Walmart you would just blend in!
Whatever you wear, you should look like you've put in an effort
Anyone should be able to see that you've put some time and effort into putting your look together.
Accessorizing....
I just love that word!!
In addition to your clothes and makeup,
you should spend some time finding the perfect accessories to go with your wardrobe.
You don't need to get a box full of accessories -- just a few key items
can help tie your look together and can make you look more feminine.
Here are some items to consider as you work on your more feminine look:
~Accessories~
A Great purse
A pretty silk scarf
A cute hat (straw for summer)
Pearl earrings or other gold hoops
A pearl bracelet or Some thin silver bracelets
I love a necklace myself...
A cute headband or clip works well for some.
A signature Scent is so very feminine!
If you want to look like a lady, then you have to smell like a lady.
Consider putting a dab of perfume on your neck
or rubbing some scented lotion on your hands or arms.
Remember to only use a light touch you don't want to overwhelm anyone with too-strong perfume.
~Be Graceful~
Being graceful as you walk, and sit!
Cross your legs at least at the ankle.
All this is important for where you are and what you're doing.
When I am on the shooting range, you must move and act appropriately.
Being graceful is the way you carry yourself in all situations.
~Acting Like a Lady~
Being kind and being confident in who you are in Christ! Looking calm and not anxious.
I remember always being in a hurry, and it showed in my mood and my mannerism.
