Using Your Mommy Voice!
One of the greatest hindrances for a good marriage is this;
Using your Mommy voice while speaking to you Husband!
It does not matter how long you have been married,
Or if you are newlyweds!
Evan if all your children are grown and gone with families of their own.
This one thing...
ALONE
Can hurt your marriage deeply!
I remember my Hubby saying to me one time or TEN,
Don't talk to me like I am a two year old!!
CHECK...
Okay, I was with my children all day long,
So when Daddy would get home,
I was still in the full Mommy mode.
Did you know they have an actual percentage of showing,
That 90% of all conflict is the TONE of your voice being used!
Could it be the MOMMY TONE??
We can emasculate our Husbands by speaking to them as if they were children.
I have been embarrassed as I have been in a crossfire of a family dispute.
A woman can sound so demeaning and haughty.
And DO NOT point your finger!
Oh, and get the hand OFF the hip!
(This is body language)
These actions speak pretty loud and clear.
So, Dear Ones, save the Mommy voice for training your children!
It is not our job to train our Husbands.
Haughty means;
Too proud of oneself and too scornful of others.
Important:
When you hear yourself using The Mommy Voice!
While speaking with YOUR Husband (An Adult)
Apologize and tell him you are sorry,
Please do not speak to anyone as a child if they are not a child!
This is called common courtesy!
And it is wisdom!
And it is wisdom!