Peer Pressure

 

Peer Pressure

 

There have been so many times in my life, that

As a mature older woman ,I have experienced this kind of

pressure.

Or, really maybe more like an outside influence.

Sometimes it may be people, other times it

can just be all the appointments on your schedule.

 

You know those seasons in your life where there are

so many changes going on, you sometimes can

be pressed into doing things that are putting

a greater discomfort on your well being.

 

For me it is usually keeping me up past my bedtime!

Really...

This girl needs her sleep!!

 

Sometimes just having to miss a meal, while

out shopping, and your routine is now hijacked

can allow your world to spin out of control;

Just because you missed a meal?

Or only 1/2 the amount of sleep needed?

 

It's all little dramatic, well it's my blog!

 

When we first start to feel this pull,

we rationalize and say,

Oh, have fun it's only this or this or this!

 

The truth is THIS;

When I get really out of sync,

My body suffers!

 

My Hubby gets less of me because I am feeling tired.

If I am gone all the time, my home looks a wee bit neglected.

 

I  must learn to navigate and to hear what

my body is saying!

 

Really the strain of doing and going on "sure will power",

can and will wear a girl out!

 

Now, don't get me wrong here;

We all need to push and persevere!

We have our homes to manage!

But at what cost to our health?

 

This girl loves here sweet sleep!

And

I function better on a full tummy!

 

What are some of the things that come at you that

might feel like peer pressure to YOU?

 

P.S.

You should never put your tongue on a metal pole

in WINTER!

No matter the peer pressure you may be feeling!

 

Or, you may have to call the Fire Department!

 

Blessings,

Roxy

Thanksgiving

 

 

 

 

 

Thanksgiving Blessings

I am thankful for so many things!

Being a child of the most high God

Having a Husband that loves the Lord!

And how he loves me.

Children that have blessed and honored me!

A home filled with love and peace!

Health in my spirit, soul and body

Being taught by the Holy Spirit

Girlfriends J

My Family

The Word

Joy

 

Don't forget to count your Blessings dear ones!

Blessings,

Roxy

Pigtail Bliss

 Pigtails

 

Pigtails are just about as much fun as hair can have!

 

Hello, Dear Blogging Friends,

Today is my Birthday!!

 

It has been so much fun...

Perfume galore!

Hand and Body lotion

Homemade cookies

Lunch with a friend

Scarf

A tapestry vest which is

(Beautiful and Vintage looking)

Eyebrows waxed

(OOUCH)

Fleece lined knee socks

Shopping list

My Mother My Friend Devotional Book

Scrap booking products

Lots of cards

Birthday wishes;

via phone calls and Text messages.

And the days not over yet!!!

 

It's my Birthday,

 So I choose Pigtails!

 

Blessings,

Roxy 



Relationships

Keep Focused 

One thing that really helps me enjoy my days is spending

time with the Lord!

 

I have experienced great peace and strength, by just

stopping and looking up!

 

Sometimes you can spend way to much time focusing

on the past, and in many cases this will cause you to

  miss the moment God has for you!

 

I had a woman tell me recently that it was all that she had

was her memories.

Because, she had no future.

She has been widowed twice in her life.

She is a very sweet and precious woman.

We had her over for a lunch and fellowship.

She told me this was the first invitation that she has had since,

moving to this area. (Almost 3 yrs.)

 

Now, What is wrong with this picture?

 

Is this a case of self isolation,

Maybe the grief is still to raw,

Some people are just loners!

 

Maybe it is just how a widower must adapt...

 

I pray for God to help us open our eyes to those

who need fellowship.

 

But, before you think I am a saint (NOT)

I have also been thinking about how I spend my time,

with my relationships.

 

I have made a decision to invest in relationships that,

will have a return,

Such as, them wanting to spend time with you

 (Not a Chore)

Being like minded in Christ!

Knowing that this is an assignment of the Lord.

Being led by the Spirit in our relationships.

Being in tune for His leading in who we talk too.

 

Being kind to all!!

 

But, being wise in with who and where you spend your time!

Is making an investment in His kingdom;

He has called us to be ready to give account;

 for what we believe!

 And because we are His hands and His feet,

We must be sensitive to His relationships He has for us!

Not only on a daily bases, but through all of our days.

Now, this does not mean all these relationships will be easy,

but rather it has the finger print and touch of God at work!

 

Blessings,

Roxy

 

 

 

 

Elbow Grease

Elbow Grease

 

Some days really do require some good old fashion

Elbow Grease!!

 

We are always being challenged;

Everything that comes at us in our lives have one purpose!

 

To conform us into our Father's image...

 

Some days can be really tough for so many people,

And as women of God we have so many things, we must do!

But let's not forget those things we love to do!

 

I have always sensed that when the days are filled with many things,

We start to feel like we can not possibly get everything done.

 

But I have seen the true Grace and Grit of the Women of God,

 

In times of war

In times of famine

In times of sorrow

Even in times of wealth and great joy and prosperity;

 

We have a legacy of our Spiritual Mothers in Christ!

 

Those women who have stood strong in God's word,

Commitments made to their family's!

 

So what did it take to get through those seasons

of trials?

 

What did they use

 When they had to prepare for great celebrations?

 

Always His strength!

But let us not forget the hard working women who stood

And did what had to be done!

They rolled up their sleeves and applied

Good Old Fashion

Elbow Grease!

 

Blessings,

Roxy

Preparing To Bake Pumpkin Bread, This One Makes Three Loaves...

I love to bake pumpkin bread!

I use this recipe all year long, because it is so

Moist and really nutritious.
Pumpkin is packed with Beta Carotene.

But, I must say this is really a yummy and delicious recipe!
Bake some for your family;
As I will tell you
 This one is a keeper!

Freshly baked right out of the oven!

Spiced Pumpkin Bread

3 1/2 c. Flour

2 c. Sugar

2 tsp. Baking soda

2 tsp. Salt

2 tsp. Ground allspice

1 tsp. Baking powder

1 tsp. Nutmeg

1 tsp. Cinnamon

1/2 tsp. Ground cloves

4 eggs

1 can (15 oz.) solid pumpkin

3/4 c. Canola oil

2/3 c. Water

1/2 c. Chopped nuts, optional

In a large bowl, combine dry ingredients.

In another bowl, combine eggs, pumpkin, oil and water. Mix well.

Stir into dry ingredients just until moistened.

Pour into 3 greased loaf pans. Sprinkle with nuts, if desired.

Bake at 350 degrees for 50 to 60 minutes or
Until a toothpick inserted near center comes out clean.

Cool for10 minutes before removing from pans.

From the Test Kitchen by Amy and Roxy

One thing I love about this recipe is the fact it does,

Three loaves of bread.

So you can have one to eat right away,

And one to freeze.

And one to give away!

Blessings,

Take Five...

Sometimes we all just need a break!

Nothing wrong with saying Time Out!!

I think what is really wrong is this;

Not helping our children or others that rely

upon us to know that there are healthy boundaries.

Or a line that sometimes people will cross.

Sometimes we allow others to demand more from us than we

Are equipped to do!

We may even be stepping over what God is doing in someones

life, and trying to rescue them.

God, has a plan always in motion, to train and teach us!

We must always pray for those who are struggling,

But, we must ask God what is this situation about?

And to help our children to learn some self control.

The: I want it NOW syndrome has caused much

Distress, and a self- made ME world...

If you are about to just flip;

When the baby is screaming or the children are

Fighting and you are bone weary.

Stop!!

Take  5 minutes or longer

To pull yourself together!

Boundaries and time out, are both very healthy

Things that a Godly woman can do, before the

Last nerve is laid bare!

Do not carry a burden that only Christ can carry!

Cry out to Him!

Rest in Him!

Tell your family that you're Super Mom uniform is

at the dry cleaners :)

Blessings,

Roxy

Living From Glory To Glory

Life Is Too Short For A Bad Cup Of Coffee

Life is too short for a bad cup of coffee!!

 

You are either a coffee drinker or not. But may I just give a

little advice to the world....

Do not assume just because  it looks like coffee,

Or smells like coffee. It must be the coffee.

 

When I go into a restaurant and I just want a cup

Of coffee, as soon as the waiter person asks if I want coffee?

I then must say yes, with this response!

(Only, if you will brew me a fresh pot) 

 

A pot of coffee that has been sitting there for 20 minutes,

Is not considered fresh to me :)

 

I also do not really care for the strong thick coffee's that

Is served in most Coffee Houses.

 

Then I get asked would you like cream?

Yes please!

(But I do use a lot so bring me plenty of it!)

 

I once won a a jingle that said to me,

Answer quickly!!

What is good to the last drop???

Maxwell House Coffee!!!

You're our winner!

 

I think it was a coupon, can't really remember.

But the point of this post is this...

 

Life is too short for a bad cup of coffee;

 

So let us drink coffee that helps us feel wonderful

Deep down inside.

 

I have been drinking this Breakfast blend from

Of course;

Maxwell House;

After all I was a winner.

 

So, please give me a fresh cup of coffee,

With lots of real cream,

And, I also use sugar please.

Blessings,
Roxy