My Most Important Prayer...
Being a wife for many years has taught me a very important prayer factor!
Yes, over all these years I have prayed many prayers;
But the one thing the Lord has showed me many times is this;
I want to be the women and the wife and housewife that
My Husband needs me to be!
I GOT IT
We all have many needs and desires for living the good life
But as a wife we are called to be set apart for one man!
His needs and how he would like things to be...
Is that really asking too much?
Remember the world teaches we are our own person!
But a great marriage is one where we become the helpmate
That woman does not come a dime a dozen...
I want to be the ONLY women who can meet His needs the way
He wants them done or met.
your Husband's needs so hard and demanding that you cannot meet them?
Usually No, not at all,
Really most men just want a home that is clean and tidy
Clean socks and jeans and shirts
A meal that is being prepared or some good sandwich fixings in the refrigerator!
A wife that looks kind and a smile on her face!
A place that he feels welcomed in and where he belongs!
A room to have a chair where he can put his feet up!
And having a wife that is not always too tired!
And having a home where the people in it thinks he is special!
"What if you became
The Woman and Wife, that your Husband was praying for?"
Believe me, things would change!
God has been very gracious to me in my marriage!
But I will say that praying to become the wife HE NEEDS is very important!
Some women have it in their head on how everything needs to be;
But sometimes it is the very small changes that can change a marriage
For the better...
Women must be the kind of wife he needs;
Sometimes we have our heads and thoughts in so many tails spins we miss,
The little things that he might need or require in any given day or a moment!
When our little ones cried, we went running, to meet their needs!
But no, our husbands are grown men and should be able to take care of themselves!
I see marriages and hear how they say things like;
They never pay me any attention any more
They never make me feel that it is important in what I say about anything
They never care about me...
Really, this is so heartbreaking!
Wake up ladies; marriage is the one thing God has given in this world
To be a picture of how He deals with us as His Bride...
"What kind of Bride are You to Your Husband?
Okay, here is the challenge;
No matter how long you have been married;
Start praying and asking the Lord to help you become;
"The wife your husband needs you to be!"