A Dolly For Christmas...

 

When I was a little girl we played house!

All the time we played house!

Being the Mommy and having a baby to care for!

We were able to dress them and hold them.

Feed them and rock them to sleep!

Putting them to bed and tucking the blankets around them.

And having a stroller to push them around in was the supreme!

And having a baby crib was the best...

Having a little diaper bag filled with bottles and blankets!

Do we still have little girls asking for a new baby doll for Christmas?

Do we see little girls playing house?

Are little girls desiring to still be Mommies?

I never even see commercials that promote the new

"Real live looking babies"

Or a high quality doll that laughs and cries anymore.

We were little girls in training...

To be Mommies and wives and caregivers of babies!

We see an attachment disorder with so many young girls!

They have no desire to be "JUST" a mommy!

Yes, Women can have so much more in these days and culture,

But being a Mommy is priceless!

What Doll did you get when you were a little girl?

Didn't you just think it was the best gift ever?

We need to help this culture to foster the caring and nurturing

Of babies and the desire to be Mommies!

Leave me a comment on the name of your most favorite,

Baby Doll you ever had!

I pray the little girls will still be Mommies in training!

No matter what this world tells them!

Expectations...

The Present

Women who refuse to face reality when it comes to a marriage,

Or our children!

We all have dreams or fantasies and expectations about

Our marriages and our children.

But it is usually  quite different from reality.

This reality or as I like to say;

"This is the way it is"

God says what are you going to do about it?

If you wait for reality to be different,

You will fail to handle the problem!

What I mean is this;

You need to use your energy in prayer and love!

We must trust God...

 As only He knows and sees the end from the beginning!

We need to see that we are now in this place called

False expectations

Or

 Unmet expectations!

False expectations will keep you captivated and in a fantasy life!

Spending time grieving over what has not looked like

Your perfect marriage or relationships that meet your expectations.

Instead, start where you are!

Praise God for these people, because these are the very situations

That God will use to refine and grow you more into His character!

Use your energy praying and enjoying the simple gifts that are

at your door and that come into your life!

We must look at each day as a gift ( A Present)

Do not be ungrateful!

When you run life's race you will have trials!

All people are somewhere in the process or in

Complete rebellion...

God knows how you have been treated!

He is a God of Justice!

It is not are call...

But we do have a calling and we had better arise to it and enjoy

"The Present"

Cozy Evenings...

Oh When The Winter Evenings Set In...

What to do in those early evenings, when it is so cold out and gets dark so early!

Learning to have contentment, even when the nights are long.

I think it feels rather cozy most nights;

But, winter can be very long as we all well know.

But I think it is important to find a few interesting and fun things,

that we can do in the evenings.

Reading is always very mindful;

But most evenings I may find myself a bit too tired to read!

I always liked the idea of having a card table set up, to have a puzzle on it!

(So you can sit for a little while and work on the puzzle)

Having a basket filled with skeins of yarn next to your chair;

Allows you a bit of creativity for a few quiet times.

( I am working on Granny Squares and scarfs)

Also dishcloths are a quick project.

A bit of television is okay,

 Watching more than one movie a night is too much!

I like to stay active, but I need something that is easy and relaxing!

Reading from the word before bed is very soothing...

Immersing ourselves in the word helps us get a peaceful nights sleep!

Maybe in the early evening you might need to check to see what is on,

 For the next day's activities.

Sometimes I will even get my clothes out and ironed and ready if

I will be leaving out very early the next morning.

(Thank God that is not very often)

Take some time and write in your Blessing Book;

(That is a special book where you write down your blessing from that day)

Realize that it is very important to rest and relax;

So we can start fresh again in the morning!

Have you ever heard the saying?

Burning the candle at both ends...

God wants us to stop and enjoy peaceful moments throughout the day.

But He also wants us to enjoy quiet and peaceful evenings and

 At Home with our loved ones!

Making Deposits Or Withdrawals...

Life can be very taxing on our finances and our emotions!

On our health and our general well being.

That is why we have need of having a stash of saved up resources.

This is not just money; as we all know how fast that goes.

Scripture even says money has wings;

We need to have a heart filled with scripture and quotes and memories

That will help us get through the lean times.

Abundance of the heart is what we need!

Issues and trials are always just waiting to be introduced to us.

Every situation is either where we are making a deposit into our resources

Or

We are making a withdrawal from it.

We have a spiritual bank, just like we a natural bank

Monetary and spiritual...

We know how we get more funds in the natural bank;

We save and be frugal and we plan, We learn to make wise financial decisions.

We gather little by little!

Our spiritual bank is very much increased in the same way;

We inquire of the Lord for each day at hand,

To make time to deposit a word in season into our heart;

As our minds will roam to find a wise word from the living word!

We can only make a withdrawal from a deposit, we have previously made!

Or it may come from a deposit made years ago.

God's word will not return void!

His word will bring the greatest dividends, then all other resources.

Seeing so many trying to make withdrawals from empty accounts is very sad indeed.

But our God is so gracious and moves with grace He covers all of our

Overdrafts in our meager accounts!

But being a wise steward requires some action on our part!

Be not like the sluggard;

Gather while it is yet day!

Precept upon precept...

I just wanted to make a comment that even though I used this picture;
Of this, 1 Minute devotion from Charles Spurgeon
It will require more time than 1 minute a day...

Please take time every day to eat from the full Banquet that
Is just waiting for us to feast upon...
Taste and see that the Lord is good!

Remember to use what God has given you wisely;
Being frugal so you can bless someone or a ministry that God has
Put upon your heart!!

Making gifts and sometimes just taking a picture and framing it,
Is a wonderful way to give someone a treasure.

We all must give account as to how we used HIS resources...
The money and time is not yours
~You my dear are just the steward of it~

I just feel I need to add this last thought here
Are you still making an active investment in your marriage?
Sometimes we can forget that this relationship needs a deposit daily also!

We can get so busy and self absorbed that we often can forget that,
The marriage relationship is used in this world as a picture of
Christ and His Church!!

Being A Home Keeper IN My Own Little World...

 

In My Own Little World...

The world can seem really big or very small at times.

It really all depends on where you are at in a season of your life!

We have all run into someone we knew when we were far from our homes.

And we may say to them wow, imagine running into you way out here!

Other times someone can be away on a trip and we think gosh;

they are so far away!

I am learning to really take care of the sphere of influence

 the Lord has given me! 

I may be able to send some money to a far away place to help with,

Feeding or taking care of someone in a third world country.

I can also help with a local community soup kitchen!

I realize the Lord has given me my lot;

My boarders to live and grow and to take care of!

I will be held accountable for my part of this world!

"MY HOME"

Making a home and keeping it up is a High Calling...

Really, please look at it from this perspective.

God wants are Homes to be filled with light and love and protection!

And if you are never HOME how can you establish this order?

The enemy has been given so much territory, because the

Keepers

Of The Home are gone....

If you feel tired and worn out because you have been gone all day;

I suggest you look at your calendar and take a few things off the

~Places to be this month~

 and maybe forever...

Helping to clear the path for others to stay home!

My job feels like it might not be very important sometimes:

But after I look at what God has given me to do and say to another

Home Keeper;

He must think this calling is pretty important...

May I help this next generation find the path to staying HOME

Clearing our hearts and minds from worldly thinking

 that has become off kilter!

I realize some single Mothers have to work;

Some Women are asked to work from their Husbands;

I get it;

But when you are given a choice or when you're not working

You are still never home.

Help us make being a home maker a glorious calling.

Not one of drudgery.

Get your heart back in sync with the Father's heart!

May this be the sweetest month, of all;

Put on the spirit of meekness

(Controlled strength)

Create and bake love into everything!

May your home be welcoming to others!

Take every thought captive and do not allow the

Sorrows or ghost of Christmas past, rob you of this one!

JOY TO THE WORLD

Hunting Trip Or Guilt Trip...

Hunting Trip Or Guilt Trip

Anyone that has been reading my blog for these last few months know of our

Family's life changing hunting trip.

We now have had to work through some of the trauma from

that hunting trip.

 We didn't even realize how deeply it had affected us.

We felt tired and a bit stressed all the time.

Some of us had a few nightmares...

I think we also were overwhelmed with the love

 and concern shown to us from so many people.

Total strangers came to that mountain to help search for our

lost grandson.

And we had hunters that were up in the mountains that were on a hunt;

Stopped their hunting and started searching for our grandson.

Our men were taxed in every one of their senses and physical strength.

We all can go through very tough times in our families and marriages!

But do we have to be victims of guilt and trauma?

We have had to pray together as a family and as couples;

We are to overcome, because He has overcome this world for our sake.

We have heard and understood so many facets of this trip;

We have seen the hand of God that protected our Grandson.

We saw the Body of Christ rise up and fulfill its call to love;

And to care for its own...

We can never look out and see the mountains again without

Counting our blessings!

The enemy wants us to feel sorrow and guilt over that 28 hours,

But God has proved His out stretched hand of protection and provisions!

When our men leave for these trips it takes so much preparation!

Food and clothing and survival bags packed for day trips.

(That survival bag our grandson carried, proved its worth)

We all can be so prepared for just about anything;

But we all have seen where we are confronted with something

" Not on the agenda!"

We are a family that hunts;

So do we now not hunt?

Do we let fear of the unknown or the possibilities stop us?

Guilt can be a strong deterrent in life;

Or

A great motivator

Guilt is a wicked task master, we cannot allow it to control us!

We are to do all things in faith;

Use wisdom

Learn from your mistakes

Being as well prepared as possible is being wise.

So thankful for the growth we have all experienced!

Just a last little ditty

True Story;

Yesterday I was preparing our turkey for our meal, and I had it all

washed and prepped for the cooking bag I was placing it in;

I had to do it all by myself as everyone was gone.

So I was able to get it into the cooking bag,

But, when I went to pick it up it came flying out of the bottom of

 the cooking bag and just rolled across the kitchen floor.

I looked up and asked REALLY...

"Yes"

No Guilt; things just have to roll

---I just had to laugh---

No worries, wash it up, place it in a roaster and bake till done!

I did tell our guest that I only dropped the turkey just once.


If you wanted to see the clip of it, here it is!
Family Reunion

What Really Makes Up A True Family...

Gathering together...

Some of those in our families have seen so many Thanksgivings,

Some newbies are just about to experience their first one.

(They have those little bibs that say Baby's First Christmas)

Where are the ones that say

"First Thanksgiving"

We have such a different array of family members;

Young and Old

Strong and Feeble

Beauty and Bronze

Male and Female

Funny and Serious

Goofy and Refined

Saved and Not Saved

Some are very colorful;

We struggle with these ones as let's just say they don't look

The way we look...

They are always trying to give us all a little bit of that thing called

~Shock Therapy~

Very colorful hair, tattoos that we have a hard time reading

A comic book of sorts, it is rather hard to read an arm!

Really, you all know who we are talking about!

Remember under it all they are part of your family.

Sometimes we just need to get over it.

Don't react to their form of look at me syndrome.

Let's face it, we all have those that are just turkeys;

A bit goofy...

They say things that make your head just lean to one side!

A little bit not with it of sorts, but nice in a way.

~Maybe they are just lonely and do not have many friends~

I think I heard them called; What is referred to as a goober...

They may have been talking about me, not sure though!

Well any way you slice it, you share something in common!

DNA

Marriage

Adoption

Friends so long they have grown up together!

Grafted In The Family!

The Family Of God!

God has said He sets the lonely in the families...

Families depend on one another for their identity and joy.

Both young and old should cherish their inter-generational relationships.

Someone to HUG

Someone to TALK TO and someone to LOVE...

Proverbs 17:6

"God Bless Everyone"

---Even a lovely rose has thorns----

Being Cherished...

 

Today is the day the Lord has made...

I am honored to have the blessings that come with being

A woman, a wife and a Mother

But being a Mother-in-law has far exceeded my

wildest hopes or dreams for another daughter through;

Marriage commitment and Love.

Here is the post my dear Amy wrote in honor of my Birthday;

A Birthday Blessing For Me, Please Read This

I have received honors today from those I love!

Thank You Amy...

This is what receiving your rewards in this life means to me!

I think investing in those God has given us is the best investment

one could ever hope to accomplish in this life.

I am reaping the benefits of staying the course;

My Children have arisen and called me blessed...

We are called to give honor to those God has put into our lives.

Sometimes we have very hard relationships in this world;

But where we can make a difference, then put forth the effort!

Flowers and chocolates are wonderful,

Cards, and words of love and encouragement!

Make the effort to show honor;

God says to us this powerful word;

Those that refresh others will themselves be refreshed!

I laughed this morning because when I turned on my computer

even Google knew it was my Birthday!

Source; From Google (To Me)

I am counting my Blessings!

Have a wonderful Day!

I appreciate each and every one of you ladies who take the time,

To visit me and to encourage me!

May we count our blessings together!

Learning to cherish someone is what God has called each of us to do!

Cherish someone today...

Politely Asking For Clarification...

Looking out for all the small infractions;

Beware...

We are Ladies, And you might hear me roar,

But I would rather not roar as it hurts even my own ears.

I think sometimes it seems like the enemy of our souls,

Works overtime to confuse and distort what we are saying!

If we could just be bold enough at times to maybe ask

for a" clarification" when we hear something contrary to what

We believe may be appropriate spoken in any given situation.

I think the enemy hopes to silence us into not asking for clarification!

You may have heard that game where you tell somebody something,

And they in turn repeat it to the next person.

And by the time it gets full circle is being so far off

 From the original statement.

. So I think it is using wisdom when we are with a 

large or small group of people to watch for being in the

Cross-fire of the enemy using our words against us.

I have observed this from a few different scenarios lately.

This can become very prominent when the holidays are upon us when

All our families and friends get together!

Be wise as a serpent and gentle as a dove...

Don't be a victim!

Rather kindly ask for clarification from the one who spoke!

We can very politely say I am sorry can you repeat that again!

Or you can say "I thought I heard you say"

We must not take so many of these things so personally.

Some people just say silly things!

Some people are just rude!

Some are just oblivious to others feelings!

Some are just not very smart!

Some have no manners!

Some really do have impaired hearing and they are just responding

From not knowing themselves what was truly said!

(This needs grace)

Rise above and be kind and direct;

(When you think you are in a crossfire of what is really

being said and what is really being heard)

We are called to know the truth, and sometimes it wants

to evade us. But we all hear things wrong at times.

I think that is why God tells us to first go to someone alone.

Then, if they will not listen, take a brother with you!

I think hearing incorrectly is not something new that the enemy.

just started using!

Does this resonate with any of you ladies!

I want to keep my peace, and that will require me to distinguish

Truth from a lie;

Facts or feelings...

How to Reduce Bags Under The Eyes...

Helpful Ideas For Puffy Eyes And Bags Under Your Eyes...

Here are a few natural remedies for puffy bags under the eyes;

For men or women

Tea Bags: 

First steep them in hot water and then let chill in the fridge

Lay back and allow them to work their magic.

Allow them to set for 15 to 20 minutes.

The caffeine in the tea bags helps with the blood vessels and swelling

Cucumber slices: 

We have all seen those on the eyes of those getting a facial!

Use a slice on each eye that has been well chilled.

Leave on for 20 minutes

These help soothe and refresh and reduce the puffiness.

Potato Slices:

Use a fresh raw slice that has been chilled,

 just on the under the eye where it is puffy.

Really helps eliminate puffiness!

Milk:

Use fresh cold milk and dip a cotton ball in it and place them just under your eyes.

Reduces water retention; try this one for a few days in a row.

Chilled Spoons or An Ice Cube:

Placed just under or over the eyes

Helps with swelling.

Egg Whites:

These need to be used as a cream of sorts,

Just massage into skin just under the eyes, allow to

Set till they dry well.

10 to 15 minutes

This one is good to do while getting ready to shower.

Wash off well!

These have properties to reduce inflammation.

I have noticed so many people with bags under their eyes.

Men and women alike,

It is from a lack of sleep and the stress of our days.

I thought a list of natural remedies would be useful to many!

Tips for stopping bags from forming;

Drink plenty of water

Get your rest!

Learn to manage everyday stress.

Use these ideas to help!

Allow God's peace to fill you so you can roll your burdens onto Him...

Healthy eyes are so important;
Eat those carrots and take good care of your eyes!

Saturday In The Country...

 

Just a few of my favorite things;

Waffles on a Saturday morning with my family!

My Hubby actually enjoys making these up for us.

I love them warm off the griddle and served with real butter an syrup.

I love a well browned fresh sausage patty with my eggs and waffle.

I think breakfast is the best meal of the day!

I also love Bacon...

My friend made me laugh years ago, they did not eat meat;

But I did have bacon all fried up to serve with the breakfast meal.

And she was eating some bacon and I asked all shocked,

I thought you didn't eat meat?

And she smiled and said

"Bacon is not meat!"

I still get a chuckle over that one...

In the evening it is so relaxing to sit with a skein of yarn,

And to work on a project on these cold nights.

Crocheting mostly, but did teach myself the basic knitting skills

last year. One of my Grandsons will be getting that camo one.

I just pulled my Mother in laws, directions for a Granny square,

Really, it is way easier than the one I have in my book.

Do any of you have one that is easy I could get a copy of?

Looking for a few easy craft ideas to make for gifts!

Here is one of my favorite fragrances

'Giorgio'

I really think 'White Shoulders' is  probably my Hubby's favorite;

And I think all the Grandchildren think it is what I smell like :o)

Well, we have wood to split today and a project to make.

This next week is my Birthday and Thanksgiving.

What are a few of your favorite things?

Cooking Up Memories...

Please enjoy this Thanksgiving Season...

It could be the last one that you get to spend with those you love!

It could be the last one to be able to gather to count your blessings!

We are not promised tomorrow dear ones;

But we have this day...

Make it a good one!

Setting the table this year may be one less for some.

We can become sad when we reflect on those who have passed on.

I miss my Mother during the holidays

So what I am saying today is this;

You have been given another day and maybe a season

~To love and to cherish~

Keep telling yourself it is up to me the Lady of this house,

To try to instill the blessings!

What are the blessings?

Honoring someone...

Serving with grace...

Speaking kind words...

Gentle actions...

The whole world feels the weight;

But really nothing is happening new under the sun.

So pull ourselves together and get the turkey and the stuffing!

Let's Roll (get it roll)

Make some tangy and tart (Cranberry Sauce)

Taters mashed and gravy in the gravy bowl...

Sweet Potato's

Jello in all kinds of colors, with hidden objects inside :o)

Oh my, don't forget the pie!

You're not just cooking dinner for family and guest;

You are giving of yourself to impart memories that stay

For all the days of your life!

Who might not be sitting with you at your next meal?

Holidays or every evening meal,

We sometimes need to think of this thought to teach us

"To Count Our Blessings"

My heart goes out to all those who have lost a loved one his past year.

Is there a special memory you have from a Thanksgiving you
remember that makes you smile?

Why Leaving A Comment Is The Most Important Thing About Blogging...

Comments

Why Commenting is maybe more important than the content of your writing!

Shock Waves reverting within Blog Land...

Do you know what validating someone means?

Sure you do!

It is saying something to someone that connects you.

It says I can see and hear you!

Now if you want a private blog as a journal (Great)

But if you are going to join every Link Party and never leave a comment,

on another blog post that has been written by another

 you are being unfriendly and self promoting!!

If God has called you to Blog in a community;

Then I can tell you this one thing;

YOU are not an Island in a stream!

We all have a piece of the puzzle,

We don't do this life alone;

We are a body!

May I ask you this question?

Are you Blogging for yourself?

Or the sake of others?

We might just be missing the whole purpose and benefit of Blogging.

If we do not MAKE time to read other people's post they have written.

Or MAKE time to comment on them!

Your Blog will grow if you do what Christ has called you to do!

I want to prosper with His leading and to bring others along side.

I realize you will not have time to comment all the time;

But NEVER...

Shame on you!

It is like totally ignoring those who come to visit You!

It is important to comment on maybe a new blogger

 Just to say hello or welcoming them to blogging!

If your Blog is so big now and can't do it, find someone who will for you!

Or, maybe an email once a month; you could do a bulk send out;

Not very personnel. But is better than nothing...

He has told us to encourage one another!

Word Verification;

Take it OFF

And for those who use Word Verification, Switch to registered user!
Or comment moderation!

 Or take off the comment box...

No Reply Blogger;
That can be frustrating when you want to reply back to someone!
Set up an account and allow others to contact you!!
Go to your Profile and add an Email
(Use a different one for your blog if you want)

Comments;
Kind and encouraging words!
Only debate on blogs that are open to that type of response.
You have the right to delete any comment that offends or brings strife.
Comment back in an Email or go to their blog and comment!
(Most people will not return back to read your reply)
You also can allow anonymous if you use commenting Moderation.

Blog Lists;
Add interesting blogs you enjoy!
Not having a blog roll seems a bit (self)
Choose just a few if you have trouble with loading!

Advertisement
I have been on blogs that have more advertisement, then anything else!
I find these a bit over the top!
(They are hard to load up and takes way to long)
Just keep your readers in mind...

Posting

Be consistent with writing your post!

Once a week, or twice or everyday!

Write a few posts and have them in your drafts!

Schedule when going on a holiday!

Keep the post or articles not too long.
(Unless of course it is a book)

Add some pictures!

Find your voice and your space and blog!

Starting a Blog
There are now more blogs being written everyday.
They say there is a community in every aspect imaginable.
Find what really interest you
What is a desire of your heart?
Is this a subject that can write often about?
Writing what you are passionate about is very important!
Is this a season in your life that will allow you the luxury of blogging?
Having a Blog requires discipline and stewardship!

Public Blog Or Private
A public blog is for everyone to read!
If they find your address they can read the context;
Most bloggers I feel are writing for a specific audience.
A private Blog can be good for keeping family pictures and information.
Or for maybe a small group dealing with special issues.
Or if you just want a private journal for your thoughts.

Link Parties
They can be very fun and a great way to meet new bloggers!
I have a page on the top of my blog showing the parties I link to.
This is where you need to leave comments, at least one!
Thank the Host!!
Read the rules!
And if you are the one hosting the party;
(Please keep the rules to a minimum)

Types Of Blogs
Decorating
DIY
Homemakers
Cooking
Mommy Blogs
History
Travel
Missionaries
Crafts
Sewing
Educational
Christian
Devotional
Home Repair
Personnel
Journal
Homesteading
Marriage Advice
How to Be A Homemaker
Beauty
Fashion
Business
Farming

As you can see the list can go on and on!

Write what is important to you!
May it bless others and honor God!
Make friends all over the world!
Writing is a wonderful way to express and grow in many ways!
Being kind to others is a lovely thing;

Did this post help you in anyway?
Do you have a thought that I can add to these ideas?
Remember, blogging is a community...

Just a last note reminder;
This is not to be a burden or a rule. but rather a real connection
With a few, then a ton with those who have no interest in you.
Remember, we have our lives we are called to live :o)

Learning To Control Our Emotions...

 

Staying Calm...

Why we must submit our emotional reactions to God...

We cannot control what goes on around us,

Or what may even be directed to us!

Our emotions are a gift from the Lord;

But he wants us to learn to not allow them to control us.

I think that at certain times of the year we can become
More sensitive and emotional when the holidays roll around!
Does that allow us to act out?
Taking every thought captive is powerful!

The range of emotions we can experience in any given hour or day,

Is really too many to list, but here are a few to use as an example.

I feel sad and feel like crying

I am feeling very angry

I feel unappreciated right now

I feel lonely and unloved

I am afraid

These are all ( I ) statements!

(I) get this

That is the whole point here...

(I) Is what I am given control over,

Not others, but myself

We can have such a range of emotions on any given day,

So I have been given a command from the Lord to exercise this control!

The world and our own lives may seem out of control;

But I can assure you God is still on His throne,

What I need to do is get off mine!

Learning to exercise some self control is an action that holds great

Dividend's my friends.

You become a woman of great worth.

Self control is a great asset to have.

It allows us to speak to our husbands in the language they understand.

(Facts and Reality)

It is just the way they function, it is not that you never cry while

Expressing your heart to your husband as we may all do at times in our marriage.

What I have been learning for years is this;

My emotions are a very special gift from the Lord;

And it is important to keep them under His love and control

Not always easy...

But as we exercise this and practice this quality

We become more like Him...

Jesus was angry and sinned not!

"Jesus wept"

Wanting to learn and to respond to the fruit of self-control is

A very powerful thing!

We all have this ability...

If we did not have the ability that would be terrible.

We have a teacher called the Holy Spirit!

We can pray and ask Him to teach us this most important fruit!

Once you sense you are not showing self-control;

Quickly ask the Lord for grace to react kindly and in love!

Once those words come out, there is not getting them back.

I have been asking the Lord to help me not to become so quickly agitated
Or irritated over something my Husband may have said.
We little ladies sometimes get on our high horses!
The word tells us not to think more highly of ourselves than we ought.

Why do we always want to be right!
(Even when we may not be right)
Keeping the peace is usually a wiser thing to do!

This does not mean we cannot tell our Husbands our ideas!
But, it is usually in how we go about it!
Arms crossed, eyes rolling!
The sigh...
~ it's not like I have ever actually done those things~

You get the picture...

Everyday is another chance with the Holy Spirit's help to
exercise putting on the garment of self-control!

Putting on self-control is like wearing a garment that fits really well...