Pretty But Has No Substance...

Pretty But Has No Substance

Sweet But Has No Longevity

How do we truly get to know another person's heart?

 If we are not careful we all can be deceived!

We all want to remember there are many honest and good in the hearts

Of many people we know and run across in our days.

But what I think when we see so much scamming and dishonesty;

We can become disheartened!

Because I can't deal with or work on another person's heart!

I must continue to stay focused on thinking and doing right!

May are words not just be sugar coated, but filled with truth spoken in love!

Sometimes we just need something we can sink our teeth into!

I try not to add too many things onto my plate now days!

Because I want to taste and savor what is important.

Just about everybody is on some bandwagon anymore.

Pick a few things that are important and put your energy into that!

People in the past or in your future that have been just fluff;

Let those things take a back seat!

Keep your eyes open for the faulty heart issues.

Controlling and manipulating hearts!

Their agenda, their way, You will always be wrong!

Because they are always the victim.

Leave them alone

Deal with your own heart

Don't read scripture and apply it to them!!

We must focus...

Taking care of ones own heart and HOME

Is your true calling...

As Always, I desire to live and have my being in Christ...

Hugs, Roxy

Two Become One...

Wedding Bells

What is your responsibility for a couple that is getting married?

You get an invitation in the mail; and you might think, "well, can I go?"

What gift might I bring?

Will it be a fun wedding?

Will they serve free food and an open bar?

But the real responsibility for attending a wedding is to take part!

To wish them well is great!

To give a gift to bless them is wonderful!

But remembering to pray for them is the best gift of all!

Why we must help them to stay married and to learn how to

Be a Good Husband and A Good Wife...

It honors each other and brings glory to God!

To understand the seriousness of making a vow?

A covenant to God?

Who here thinks marriage is easy?

It's work, and the only work that will provide long lasting benefits!

She will have to learn to do many new things!

He will have to learn to do many things!

But the biggest challenge is learning to not put oneself first any longer!

We live in a world of selfies...

Truly, whether it be any social media, people love to take pictures

Of themselves...

Look At Me!!!

I find it a bit too much!

If there is no benefit for me then I am not interested!

"You have heard the saying- Well, that's enough about me;

Now, tell me what YOU think of ME..."

Getting married is a good thing!

Staying married is even better!

Pray to marry the right person!

Get wise counsel!

I can promise you this; no matter who you marry or when you marry;

You will still have to stop the selfish me syndrome;

And look to one another needs.

Then comes the children

Then they grow up and leave home.

Some become selfish and never look back;

And once again, it will be the two of you!

Have you made the effort to become one?

Its daily work!!

But it's really not all about you, Now is it??

Our Grandson is married now and we will pray daily for them!

We will do all we can,  to help their marriage succeed!

As Always, Loving and Living

But praying, to live my life for His Glory!

Any advice for the newly wedded couple?

Leave a comment and I will send it to them!

You never know the impact of wise words...

If You Do Not Have Anything Nice To Say Don't say Anything At All...

Be An Encourager

To encourage means to in-courage...

We all need to be encouraged!

I want to remind myself of this important biblical teaching.

I was remembering my Mother saying to all of us as we were growing up;
"If you do not have anything nice to say, Don't say anything at all!"

I have had to remember this often in my life!

Why...
Because Life is hard and people can be difficult;

And sometimes I just want to tell these difficult people
What I truly think of their self-centered behavior.

In our day to day life we do not always get what I call a do over.

Sometimes we only get one shot to do the right thing!!

One of Satan's greatest weapons he uses is discouragement!

Knowing the enemy's tactics is a powerful thing.

How might this tool be used in the life of each of us?

When we become weary or ill, we have less resistance to discouragement.

When we are targets of hurtful words.

When we are made fun of and they make jokes about the way you talk.

When people ignore you!

When the finances become tight

When everything seems to go wrong

When you have a long spell of bad weather

When you do not have your quiet time

When you just need God to send an In-courager to you!

I always remind myself of how David encouraged himself;

But, we all know that we are given the examples in the Word;

To encourage one another!!

These are a bit like the days of Noah;

But, I choose to live each day doing a little more encouraging

to others when I am able to do this!

We all must carry on!

Make a nice meal or dessert!

Enjoy the moment!

~ DO NOT ALLOW THE ENEMY A FOOTHOLD ~

As Always I desire to live in a way that is pleasing to my Lord...

God, please help me to remember that if I do not have anything nice,

To say may I not say anything at all...

Always, Roxy

How To Backup And Save Your Blog Posts...

The Importance Of Backing Up Your Blog!!

I have always been a bit paranoid that one day I would wake up to find my

Blog either vanished from or banished from Blog sphere.

The Blogger platform is one of the best in my opinion!

Blogger has a built in recovery and backup plan for lost content.

Many of us Blogger's have been blogging for a long time;

We have shared pictures and content that contains

Our hearts and our trials and our victories...

When we all look back over the years we can see that the Internet has changed.

There are many people that can try to use what we have written.

I think we must all take a moment and do a reality check.

We all run a risk when we put it on the Internet.

I will not even go into all the glitches and trouble I have had!

Sometimes I am afraid to change my template.

I am not a professional tecky person,

But I have tried to learn how to keep my blog clean and safe!

Secure Content

A Great virus and malware protection.

Paying for one is a much better then a free one in my opinion!

There are some Blogs out there that I no longer can visit;

Because it contains mix content, Https & Http

Using pictures or content not legal

How to back up your Blog

Very Easy

Go to your Dashboard

Go to your settings (click other)

You will see the Title Import & Backup

Click Backup

Save to computer

It will download to your computer!

They say to do it every three months or so!

Blogger is a wonderful company, but everything has glitches.

I have learned so much by investigating all my little and big problems.

Keep your information safe, be careful what you share!

Backup Your Blog Material

Blessings, Roxy

Living From Glory To Glory

The Taste Of Home...

The Taste Of Home

It's always nice to have a home that makes you want to be there.

One of the things I hope to see in this next generation is this;

Just a desire to have a place that is cozy and clean,

Filled with things that make it useable and lovely.

They will have to learn to do things a bit different in this new decade.

I really don't recognize the world we live in anymore.

I see and hear things that shock me!

Some of these things break my heart!

But, we still have the responsibility and joy to create

A place filled with things that truly satisfy!

We need to capture and create

The Taste Of Home...

Good Food

Good Books

Good Fellowship

Good Laughs

Hugs

Affirmation

Prayer

Why are pain killers so prevalent?

Why is it that no one wants to feel anything?

Why do we need every kind of energy drink available?

No one sleeps anymore

A culture of insomniacs;

We are addicted to screens, phones or devices!

Houston, we got a problem!

Do we even understand the meaning of moderation?

Do you need a bit of good old fashion Home Life?

I for one want to encourage all of us to never give up on what is needed!

The body really needs a place where the mind can rest

The Body to be nourished

The Taste of something fulfilling!

Try a new recipe!

Start having an evening you have others over for a meal!

 Home with Heart

Having a small spot to be able to create!

 Painting, or Reading, Beading

Encourage one another to build and to use their God given talents!

Fight the good fight...

Keep your home a refuge...

The Taste Of Home will always be appreciated if you will do

What is required of you!

Keep Praying and Keep watch over your HOME...

Love, Roxy

Do You Hold Grudges...

You better learn to be a bit like Mary Poppins;

~ Just a spoon full of sugar helps the medicine go down ~

Holding a Grudge or Choosing to Forgive...

Do You Hold Grudges?

What happens when you hold a grudge against someone?

When you hold a grudge bad things happen to you mentally and physically.
Holding a grudge is really un-forgiveness.

Here are a couple of examples of how holding a grudge really works;

Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to get sick.
Holding a grudge is a bit like lighting ourselves on fire and expecting the other
Person to die from smoke inhalations.

When you read this it all sounds pretty stupid!

Why do people hold grudges?
Self preservation!
Wanting to be right!
To prove a point!
To retaliate from a hurt they were subject to!

Holding a grudge will only hurt yourself you mught think
But actually it hurts the whole dynamics in a family
Also in the church, and in the work place.

A grudge turns into anger, then bitterness!
Hate, then death of life and joy and kindness.

So many turn into vindictive people once they are hurt
And then decide not to forgive and to hold a grudge.
It's a form of control!

"I'll get you my pretty"
The witch told this to Dorthy from the Wizard of Oz

I get it...
We have all been hurt somewhere by someone.
It happens in families in marriages
But, holding a grudge is toxic!
Forgiving someone does not mean you now have to hang out with them!
And it does not mean you have to allow them in your life.
But you need to forgive and to be civil and respectful.
To be at peace as much as is possible.

Holding a grudge will make life unbearable for yourself and everyone
Around you, as you will be a form of an angry person.
Like in the movie, Toy Story
 Mrs Potato Head said to Mr Potato Head
I packed your angry eyes for you...

We have all seen the effect of knowing when someone is holding a grudge.
After all it truly is a heart condition!
You can either have a healthy heart or one heavy laden.

Sending a big hello to you all!

Life is either like a bowl full of cherries
Or
A chair filled with bowls.

You do have a choice!

Always, Living From Glory To Glory

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Sunday Dinners...

There was a time when Sunday Dinner was considered a pleasure.

The aroma of a pot roast cooking or burgers on the grill;

It was family time...

Grandmas and Mothers took the preparing of this meal as a joy.

We always expected company,

So we always added a bit extra to the pot.

Dinner is served on Sunday at 5:00

It can be done in such a fashion that makes all feel welcome.
It can be done as easy as you need it to be!
It can be done because God gives you the strength!
It is to bring life to another, the substance of sharing a meal together!

The reason for this Blog post is to help turn your heart to fellowship!
Not social media hour!

You want some Face Time?

Well, here is a nice safe place to do it!
Around your own table...

We live in a culture that thinks they need to share every moment of
Their private lives with you!
Using Emoji's

I want to connect with an Old Fashion Tradition...

SUNDAY DINNERS

Make it simple
Make it elaborate
Make it from the heart
Make it and they will come...

One day a week to reach out and yet stay HOME
Stretch your imagination,
Cook most of it a day before,
A Casserole
A pot of soup
A sandwich
A pot of simmering spaghetti sauce!

Feed our souls...
Feed yourself...
"Because those that refresh others will be refreshed themselves"

Be refreshed Dear Ones
Be Cheerful
Become not just a house
But be a HOME
That says
~ Welcome ~

As Always, I share what I am learning...
Living From Glory To Glory

Plan a Sunday meal...
Because its worth your time and energy...
You have a whole week to plan!

God Can And Will Use Cracked Pots...

~ God Can And Will Use Cracked Tea Pots~

As I write this post this morning my heart is full!

I have had to go over in my own life and the life of this Blog;

I know many at one time followed me or stopped in for a visit or,

Left a comment that encouraged or inspired me to continue.

Do you ever wonder why some people come into your life and yet?

Will leave without a proper Good-bye.

I think we as women need to have a safe place to grow;

And to be encouraged and to be reminded of what is right and wrong.

We wonder sometimes why so many have gone astray;

Well, I lean toward our rebellious hearts.

We like to believe we can do it our way!

My desire is to be cheerful in the midst of a busy world!

I find great solace to be quiet at times,

Times to laugh until it hurts.

To allow others to not involve me into their lives.

O often like to think I blogged for me;

But, I now know it is to speak and to share words from my heart!

I may ask often is anybody out there?

We must be wise with where we spend our time!

I do pray as long as I feel led to write on this Blog

Living From Glory To Glory

I will do it for YOU

For God's Glory...

I have said so many times this little phrase

"No one ever told me these things"

Well, what things?

Those little reminders of what you say and do for others

Husband and Children and Family and Friends,

And even the strangers, can make a profound difference!

Just when I was weary and tired and cold;

Up pops one of those comments that make me cry!

Dear Roxy, yourself and Lydia (of Home Living) have lifted me out of many a bleak day over the past few years. You point out the important things in life and have reminded me to be appreciative of the small (and important) things in life. God bless you abundantly for the time you spend on your blog posts. As you press the 'send' button you have no idea how it might be helping a stranger many thousands of miles away. Love from the U.K

Thank you for your word of LOVE and Encouragement...

Yes, some days are just bleak Dear Ones,

Notice how just one encouraging word or smile can change everything!

I love the scripture that says

~ He makes all things new ~

Love yourself with His LOVE

Love others with His LOVE

Love because He compels us to LOVE 

Love, Roxy