Beware Of Toxic Relationships...

 Toxic Relationships

Why I believe Godly character is the most important issue in our world!

We are no longer self disciplined in anything

We seem to be so selfish!

And people want to control others in everything!

Also the drama is unbelievable...

Between the school system and being single parents,

(Revised statement)

Schools can no longer really help kids deal with their emotions

Single parents do not have the help at times or a break to be refreshed!

This  statement was written, but I never intended to bash single parents!

Not allowing morals and standards, and no work ethic.

We're in for some relationship issues that will crumble our society!

Let's face it, sports are more important than church!

The phone tucked into your butt pocket or bra is your life...

The kitchen table is now a raised table or bar stools!

You know how tough it is to not even being comfortable in your own skin?

Walking on eggshells in your own home!

I am counting my blessings I do not have these kinds of relationships.

But I could have them if I would of allowed it way back when.

I never even heard the term toxic relationship, but its a buzz today!

Why???

Because, we are spoiled children and no longer disciplined, we won't

Learn from our mistakes!

We want to be in every bodies business and we think we should

To know about every one's personal matter's!

Where is the wise counsel??

Once again, I can only encourage you to self examine your attitude

And actions in all relationships!

We have a heart issue!

Here is what this behavior might be characterized by

Emotionally and Physically damaging effects

Panic attacks

Insecure feelings

Isolation

Some things a person may do to another that are not healthy;

Toxic behavior

Control over all the finances

Trying to control your thoughts and feelings

Verbal Abuse

Dominance

Control

Manipulation

I am not enjoying writing a post on this subject;

But I think that if I can expose this terrible manipulating issue,

Why not try to help someone see a red flag early in a relationship!

Because marriage is hard enough without being toxic from the beginning.

Working on being sound in mind and behavior is a lifelong endeavor!

Be wise as a serpent and gentle as a dove;

Matthew 10:16

~Combine the wisdom of the serpent with the harmlessness of the dove~

May we pray for those that are struggling in every situation!
This life can be so very hard!
My intent is to help, not to be critical!
I also try to be gentle...

Bloom Where You Are Planted...

Sunshine

Why do we need sunshine?

What if the sun would grow dull and turn black?

What if we could no longer see things clearly?

The brightness as a noon day!

Sometimes when I can see and feel the darkness growing stronger;
It does grieve my heart.
Most days I refuse to look at the grim conditions and just plod on!

But there are times when we can see all too clearly what the ramifications are doing.

What happens to a society that sees everything as acceptable?

When they believe that nothing is wrong or immoral;

What is a moral issue in our day that breaks your heart?

What can I do to make where I live and abode be filled with light?
"We must flourish like a flower"

A flower can flourish in a city sidewalk, where only a crack of soil is exposed!

Our lives are very much like a flower;
We can grow in the toughest conditions;
We can bloom anywhere!
We can send out a sweet smelling fragrance!
We can be but a small fragment of beauty!
Even though a flower bloom lasts a short time;
It can bring great JOY in the moment...

When we go through a tough season of pain or drought or lack of sunshine;
We can become weak of heart;
That is why we must gird up our loins of our mind!
Be mindful of the moments, life is but a flower.
But I truly believe some of our moments will never fade away,
Or will be forgotten, if we will but keep close to our heavenly Father.
Tend the garden of your soul!
Look for a streaming light of sunshine every day!
Continue to plant seeds of love!
Repent often, and pull up those nasty weeds of doubt!
Water your garden with God's Holy Word!
Refuse to live in darkness!


We all have a choice daily!
So make it flourish like a flower.

So remind yourself often and remind those you love;
Take the little quote that has big dividends;

BLOOM WHERE YOU ARE PLANTED

Trust me, when or if the Lord decides to relocate you,
You will continue to flourish wherever He moves you!

Sending you all a big Hello and Happy Day...

Living from Glory To Glory

Roxy

Pretty But Has No Substance...

Pretty But Has No Substance

Sweet But Has No Longevity

How do we truly get to know another person's heart?

 If we are not careful we all can be deceived!

We all want to remember there are many honest and good in the hearts

Of many people we know and run across in our days.

But what I think when we see so much scamming and dishonesty;

We can become disheartened!

Because I can't deal with or work on another person's heart!

I must continue to stay focused on thinking and doing right!

May are words not just be sugar coated, but filled with truth spoken in love!

Sometimes we just need something we can sink our teeth into!

I try not to add too many things onto my plate now days!

Because I want to taste and savor what is important.

Just about everybody is on some bandwagon anymore.

Pick a few things that are important and put your energy into that!

People in the past or in your future that have been just fluff;

Let those things take a back seat!

Keep your eyes open for the faulty heart issues.

Controlling and manipulating hearts!

Their agenda, their way, You will always be wrong!

Because they are always the victim.

Leave them alone

Deal with your own heart

Don't read scripture and apply it to them!!

We must focus...

Taking care of ones own heart and HOME

Is your true calling...

As Always, I desire to live and have my being in Christ...

Hugs, Roxy

Two Become One...

Wedding Bells

What is your responsibility for a couple that is getting married?

You get an invitation in the mail; and you might think, "well, can I go?"

What gift might I bring?

Will it be a fun wedding?

Will they serve free food and an open bar?

But the real responsibility for attending a wedding is to take part!

To wish them well is great!

To give a gift to bless them is wonderful!

But remembering to pray for them is the best gift of all!

Why we must help them to stay married and to learn how to

Be a Good Husband and A Good Wife...

It honors each other and brings glory to God!

To understand the seriousness of making a vow?

A covenant to God?

Who here thinks marriage is easy?

It's work, and the only work that will provide long lasting benefits!

She will have to learn to do many new things!

He will have to learn to do many things!

But the biggest challenge is learning to not put oneself first any longer!

We live in a world of selfies...

Truly, whether it be any social media, people love to take pictures

Of themselves...

Look At Me!!!

I find it a bit too much!

If there is no benefit for me then I am not interested!

"You have heard the saying- Well, that's enough about me;

Now, tell me what YOU think of ME..."

Getting married is a good thing!

Staying married is even better!

Pray to marry the right person!

Get wise counsel!

I can promise you this; no matter who you marry or when you marry;

You will still have to stop the selfish me syndrome;

And look to one another needs.

Then comes the children

Then they grow up and leave home.

Some become selfish and never look back;

And once again, it will be the two of you!

Have you made the effort to become one?

Its daily work!!

But it's really not all about you, Now is it??

Our Grandson is married now and we will pray daily for them!

We will do all we can,  to help their marriage succeed!

As Always, Loving and Living

But praying, to live my life for His Glory!

Any advice for the newly wedded couple?

Leave a comment and I will send it to them!

You never know the impact of wise words...

If You Do Not Have Anything Nice To Say Don't say Anything At All...

Be An Encourager

To encourage means to in-courage...

We all need to be encouraged!

I want to remind myself of this important biblical teaching.

I was remembering my Mother saying to all of us as we were growing up;
"If you do not have anything nice to say, Don't say anything at all!"

I have had to remember this often in my life!

Why...
Because Life is hard and people can be difficult;

And sometimes I just want to tell these difficult people
What I truly think of their self-centered behavior.

In our day to day life we do not always get what I call a do over.

Sometimes we only get one shot to do the right thing!!

One of Satan's greatest weapons he uses is discouragement!

Knowing the enemy's tactics is a powerful thing.

How might this tool be used in the life of each of us?

When we become weary or ill, we have less resistance to discouragement.

When we are targets of hurtful words.

When we are made fun of and they make jokes about the way you talk.

When people ignore you!

When the finances become tight

When everything seems to go wrong

When you have a long spell of bad weather

When you do not have your quiet time

When you just need God to send an In-courager to you!

I always remind myself of how David encouraged himself;

But, we all know that we are given the examples in the Word;

To encourage one another!!

These are a bit like the days of Noah;

But, I choose to live each day doing a little more encouraging

to others when I am able to do this!

We all must carry on!

Make a nice meal or dessert!

Enjoy the moment!

~ DO NOT ALLOW THE ENEMY A FOOTHOLD ~

As Always I desire to live in a way that is pleasing to my Lord...

God, please help me to remember that if I do not have anything nice,

To say may I not say anything at all...

Always, Roxy

How To Backup And Save Your Blog Posts...

The Importance Of Backing Up Your Blog!!

I have always been a bit paranoid that one day I would wake up to find my

Blog either vanished from or banished from Blog sphere.

The Blogger platform is one of the best in my opinion!

Blogger has a built in recovery and backup plan for lost content.

Many of us Blogger's have been blogging for a long time;

We have shared pictures and content that contains

Our hearts and our trials and our victories...

When we all look back over the years we can see that the Internet has changed.

There are many people that can try to use what we have written.

I think we must all take a moment and do a reality check.

We all run a risk when we put it on the Internet.

I will not even go into all the glitches and trouble I have had!

Sometimes I am afraid to change my template.

I am not a professional tecky person,

But I have tried to learn how to keep my blog clean and safe!

Secure Content

A Great virus and malware protection.

Paying for one is a much better then a free one in my opinion!

There are some Blogs out there that I no longer can visit;

Because it contains mix content, Https & Http

Using pictures or content not legal

How to back up your Blog

Very Easy

Go to your Dashboard

Go to your settings (click other)

You will see the Title Import & Backup

Click Backup

Save to computer

It will download to your computer!

They say to do it every three months or so!

Blogger is a wonderful company, but everything has glitches.

I have learned so much by investigating all my little and big problems.

Keep your information safe, be careful what you share!

Backup Your Blog Material

Blessings, Roxy

Living From Glory To Glory

The Taste Of Home...

The Taste Of Home

It's always nice to have a home that makes you want to be there.

One of the things I hope to see in this next generation is this;

Just a desire to have a place that is cozy and clean,

Filled with things that make it useable and lovely.

They will have to learn to do things a bit different in this new decade.

I really don't recognize the world we live in anymore.

I see and hear things that shock me!

Some of these things break my heart!

But, we still have the responsibility and joy to create

A place filled with things that truly satisfy!

We need to capture and create

The Taste Of Home...

Good Food

Good Books

Good Fellowship

Good Laughs

Hugs

Affirmation

Prayer

Why are pain killers so prevalent?

Why is it that no one wants to feel anything?

Why do we need every kind of energy drink available?

No one sleeps anymore

A culture of insomniacs;

We are addicted to screens, phones or devices!

Houston, we got a problem!

Do we even understand the meaning of moderation?

Do you need a bit of good old fashion Home Life?

I for one want to encourage all of us to never give up on what is needed!

The body really needs a place where the mind can rest

The Body to be nourished

The Taste of something fulfilling!

Try a new recipe!

Start having an evening you have others over for a meal!

 Home with Heart

Having a small spot to be able to create!

 Painting, or Reading, Beading

Encourage one another to build and to use their God given talents!

Fight the good fight...

Keep your home a refuge...

The Taste Of Home will always be appreciated if you will do

What is required of you!

Keep Praying and Keep watch over your HOME...

Love, Roxy

Do You Hold Grudges...

You better learn to be a bit like Mary Poppins;

~ Just a spoon full of sugar helps the medicine go down ~

Holding a Grudge or Choosing to Forgive...

Do You Hold Grudges?

What happens when you hold a grudge against someone?

When you hold a grudge bad things happen to you mentally and physically.
Holding a grudge is really un-forgiveness.

Here are a couple of examples of how holding a grudge really works;

Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to get sick.
Holding a grudge is a bit like lighting ourselves on fire and expecting the other
Person to die from smoke inhalations.

When you read this it all sounds pretty stupid!

Why do people hold grudges?
Self preservation!
Wanting to be right!
To prove a point!
To retaliate from a hurt they were subject to!

Holding a grudge will only hurt yourself you mught think
But actually it hurts the whole dynamics in a family
Also in the church, and in the work place.

A grudge turns into anger, then bitterness!
Hate, then death of life and joy and kindness.

So many turn into vindictive people once they are hurt
And then decide not to forgive and to hold a grudge.
It's a form of control!

"I'll get you my pretty"
The witch told this to Dorthy from the Wizard of Oz

I get it...
We have all been hurt somewhere by someone.
It happens in families in marriages
But, holding a grudge is toxic!
Forgiving someone does not mean you now have to hang out with them!
And it does not mean you have to allow them in your life.
But you need to forgive and to be civil and respectful.
To be at peace as much as is possible.

Holding a grudge will make life unbearable for yourself and everyone
Around you, as you will be a form of an angry person.
Like in the movie, Toy Story
 Mrs Potato Head said to Mr Potato Head
I packed your angry eyes for you...

We have all seen the effect of knowing when someone is holding a grudge.
After all it truly is a heart condition!
You can either have a healthy heart or one heavy laden.

Sending a big hello to you all!

Life is either like a bowl full of cherries
Or
A chair filled with bowls.

You do have a choice!

Always, Living From Glory To Glory

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